dannyegg4575
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From your posts, you've already decided to do it. it's up to you if you will carry through with it. your asking us only to see if we'll fuel you to go ahead with it. it's your call really.
It's simple really. If your intention is to just bang the chick and move on, then, what your gf doesn't know won't hurt her. you get your temporary fix, like an addict to cocaine. But once that fix is over, you'll have to face looking at her in a different light. You will have this shadow on your back. Just like a teenager to masturbation. You masturbate, get the good feeling for a little while and then you go on your normal day routine.
Personally, I did it to my first gf. I never did learn though, I cheated on another ex as well. Looking back now, i felt really bad because in between, I had to deal with the issues of guilt. yes, guilt. the nagging feeling of not being completely honest with the one chick that I love and a chick that does everything for me and my discontent penis pulled me towards someone else.
So, it's really about your own emotional control. how strong are you in fighting temptations?
My last one-gina, I thought I could handle the relationship and burn my little black book. i tried to be faithful and do all the right things. Life doesn't work that way. you always have to have options. i didn't cheat on her. I broke up with her in September and THEN pursued someone else. She hung on for two months. I thought she was sincere, so i caved. that's how i got screwed.
if you don't want to do the moral thing, then go ahead, have your ONS. If you want to be faithful to your girl and think she won't cheat on you, then, an alternative is to keep this other girl stringing along. Just like what all women do. Evaluate through time to see if your current girl is "good enough", if not, go to the other chick. Girls like men who are patient anyway. so, you keeping the hot chick waiting only pays dividends. hey, women do it and they're angels; men do it and we're scums. why is that?
Bare in mind though, if she finds out, you lose her.. then you'll have to deal with starting a brand new relationship with someone else and start the whole process all over again. Are you willing to do that?
I'm getting all philosophical now. 'm sorry. Just want you to think about the couple of things that's all.
It's simple really. If your intention is to just bang the chick and move on, then, what your gf doesn't know won't hurt her. you get your temporary fix, like an addict to cocaine. But once that fix is over, you'll have to face looking at her in a different light. You will have this shadow on your back. Just like a teenager to masturbation. You masturbate, get the good feeling for a little while and then you go on your normal day routine.
Personally, I did it to my first gf. I never did learn though, I cheated on another ex as well. Looking back now, i felt really bad because in between, I had to deal with the issues of guilt. yes, guilt. the nagging feeling of not being completely honest with the one chick that I love and a chick that does everything for me and my discontent penis pulled me towards someone else.
So, it's really about your own emotional control. how strong are you in fighting temptations?
My last one-gina, I thought I could handle the relationship and burn my little black book. i tried to be faithful and do all the right things. Life doesn't work that way. you always have to have options. i didn't cheat on her. I broke up with her in September and THEN pursued someone else. She hung on for two months. I thought she was sincere, so i caved. that's how i got screwed.
if you don't want to do the moral thing, then go ahead, have your ONS. If you want to be faithful to your girl and think she won't cheat on you, then, an alternative is to keep this other girl stringing along. Just like what all women do. Evaluate through time to see if your current girl is "good enough", if not, go to the other chick. Girls like men who are patient anyway. so, you keeping the hot chick waiting only pays dividends. hey, women do it and they're angels; men do it and we're scums. why is that?
Bare in mind though, if she finds out, you lose her.. then you'll have to deal with starting a brand new relationship with someone else and start the whole process all over again. Are you willing to do that?
I'm getting all philosophical now. 'm sorry. Just want you to think about the couple of things that's all.
