Valmont the seducer
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"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
to break a heart?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
oakraiderz2
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Youre an idiot.
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You are not making sense....
Valmont the seducer
Don Juan
why r u beeing so lame?
just wanted to know how you guys handle this type of situations,, most of all what I hate isz that girls wanna have revenge (it's really funny) ,..and what I see lately that guys beeing so lame , ooh I love you.. Ooh I wanna be with you, and when they get dumped by the girl they look surprised, ...
first of all , I m not an idiotoakraiderz2 said:
just wanted to know how you guys handle this type of situations,, most of all what I hate isz that girls wanna have revenge (it's really funny) ,..and what I see lately that guys beeing so lame , ooh I love you.. Ooh I wanna be with you, and when they get dumped by the girl they look surprised, ...
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Dude, could you please construct a coherent sentence? It doesnt seem like you can, hence why i called you an idiot. Youve yet to prove otherwise. I dont know what youre saying.Valmont the seducer said:
Valmont the seducer
Don Juan
what i mean isz...
oakraiderz2 said:Dude, could you please construct a coherent sentence? It doesnt seem like you can, hence why i called you an idiot. Youve yet to prove otherwise. I dont know what youre saying.[/QUOTEl
look bruv, what i mean is , like some guys just stick up with one girl and when they get dumped by that girl , they ask there selfs the question 'what did i do wrong', or 'i can't live anymore' blabla, i think it's really pathetic , why would ya stick up with one girl? , when you could have three or more at the same time , you gotta have game I mean
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Let me get this straight, you're saying that in order to avoid having your heart broken you instead break their hearts first?
dude, learn to speak like a normal human being. Unless of course you would like to be working at a gas station for the rest of your life, but I'm pretty sure even that job now requires a friendly greeting that can be understood by most people.
Go hit the books or something. :crackup:
Go hit the books or something. :crackup:
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Your trying to sound like a hardazz with this thread.
Grow up and realize that people have feelings and your not the center of the universe.
If you break someones heart then so be it, you gotta do what you gotta do, but its not a "cool" thing to do nor is it something you should enjoy doing.
Grow up and realize that people have feelings and your not the center of the universe.
If you break someones heart then so be it, you gotta do what you gotta do, but its not a "cool" thing to do nor is it something you should enjoy doing.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.