"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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to break a heart?

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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oakraiderz2

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Youre an idiot.
 
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why r u beeing so lame?

oakraiderz2 said:
Youre an idiot.
first of all , I m not an idiot
just wanted to know how you guys handle this type of situations,, most of all what I hate isz that girls wanna have revenge (it's really funny) ,..and what I see lately that guys beeing so lame , ooh I love you.. Ooh I wanna be with you, and when they get dumped by the girl they look surprised, ...
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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oakraiderz2

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Valmont the seducer said:
first of all , I m not an idiot
just wanted to know how you guys handle this type of situations,, most of all what I hate isz that girls wanna have revenge (it's really funny) ,..and what I see lately that guys beeing so lame , ooh I love you.. Ooh I wanna be with you, and when they get dumped by the girl they look surprised, ...
Dude, could you please construct a coherent sentence? It doesnt seem like you can, hence why i called you an idiot. Youve yet to prove otherwise. I dont know what youre saying.
 
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what i mean isz...

oakraiderz2 said:
Dude, could you please construct a coherent sentence? It doesnt seem like you can, hence why i called you an idiot. Youve yet to prove otherwise. I dont know what youre saying.[/QUOTEl

look bruv, what i mean is , like some guys just stick up with one girl and when they get dumped by that girl , they ask there selfs the question 'what did i do wrong', or 'i can't live anymore' blabla, i think it's really pathetic , why would ya stick up with one girl? , when you could have three or more at the same time , you gotta have game I mean;)
 

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Let me get this straight, you're saying that in order to avoid having your heart broken you instead break their hearts first?
 

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dude, learn to speak like a normal human being. Unless of course you would like to be working at a gas station for the rest of your life, but I'm pretty sure even that job now requires a friendly greeting that can be understood by most people.

Go hit the books or something. :crackup:
 

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Your trying to sound like a hardazz with this thread.

Grow up and realize that people have feelings and your not the center of the universe.

If you break someones heart then so be it, you gotta do what you gotta do, but its not a "cool" thing to do nor is it something you should enjoy doing.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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