Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Youre an idiot.
 
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why r u beeing so lame?

oakraiderz2 said:
Youre an idiot.
first of all , I m not an idiot
just wanted to know how you guys handle this type of situations,, most of all what I hate isz that girls wanna have revenge (it's really funny) ,..and what I see lately that guys beeing so lame , ooh I love you.. Ooh I wanna be with you, and when they get dumped by the girl they look surprised, ...
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Valmont the seducer said:
first of all , I m not an idiot
just wanted to know how you guys handle this type of situations,, most of all what I hate isz that girls wanna have revenge (it's really funny) ,..and what I see lately that guys beeing so lame , ooh I love you.. Ooh I wanna be with you, and when they get dumped by the girl they look surprised, ...
Dude, could you please construct a coherent sentence? It doesnt seem like you can, hence why i called you an idiot. Youve yet to prove otherwise. I dont know what youre saying.
 
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what i mean isz...

oakraiderz2 said:
Dude, could you please construct a coherent sentence? It doesnt seem like you can, hence why i called you an idiot. Youve yet to prove otherwise. I dont know what youre saying.[/QUOTEl

look bruv, what i mean is , like some guys just stick up with one girl and when they get dumped by that girl , they ask there selfs the question 'what did i do wrong', or 'i can't live anymore' blabla, i think it's really pathetic , why would ya stick up with one girl? , when you could have three or more at the same time , you gotta have game I mean;)
 

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Let me get this straight, you're saying that in order to avoid having your heart broken you instead break their hearts first?
 

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dude, learn to speak like a normal human being. Unless of course you would like to be working at a gas station for the rest of your life, but I'm pretty sure even that job now requires a friendly greeting that can be understood by most people.

Go hit the books or something. :crackup:
 

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Your trying to sound like a hardazz with this thread.

Grow up and realize that people have feelings and your not the center of the universe.

If you break someones heart then so be it, you gotta do what you gotta do, but its not a "cool" thing to do nor is it something you should enjoy doing.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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