Valmont the seducer
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
to break a heart?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
oakraiderz2
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Youre an idiot.
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You are not making sense....
Valmont the seducer
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why r u beeing so lame?
just wanted to know how you guys handle this type of situations,, most of all what I hate isz that girls wanna have revenge (it's really funny) ,..and what I see lately that guys beeing so lame , ooh I love you.. Ooh I wanna be with you, and when they get dumped by the girl they look surprised, ...
first of all , I m not an idiotoakraiderz2 said:
just wanted to know how you guys handle this type of situations,, most of all what I hate isz that girls wanna have revenge (it's really funny) ,..and what I see lately that guys beeing so lame , ooh I love you.. Ooh I wanna be with you, and when they get dumped by the girl they look surprised, ...
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
oakraiderz2
Master Don Juan
Dude, could you please construct a coherent sentence? It doesnt seem like you can, hence why i called you an idiot. Youve yet to prove otherwise. I dont know what youre saying.Valmont the seducer said:
Valmont the seducer
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what i mean isz...
oakraiderz2 said:Dude, could you please construct a coherent sentence? It doesnt seem like you can, hence why i called you an idiot. Youve yet to prove otherwise. I dont know what youre saying.[/QUOTEl
look bruv, what i mean is , like some guys just stick up with one girl and when they get dumped by that girl , they ask there selfs the question 'what did i do wrong', or 'i can't live anymore' blabla, i think it's really pathetic , why would ya stick up with one girl? , when you could have three or more at the same time , you gotta have game I mean
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Let me get this straight, you're saying that in order to avoid having your heart broken you instead break their hearts first?
dude, learn to speak like a normal human being. Unless of course you would like to be working at a gas station for the rest of your life, but I'm pretty sure even that job now requires a friendly greeting that can be understood by most people.
Go hit the books or something. :crackup:
Go hit the books or something. :crackup:
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Your trying to sound like a hardazz with this thread.
Grow up and realize that people have feelings and your not the center of the universe.
If you break someones heart then so be it, you gotta do what you gotta do, but its not a "cool" thing to do nor is it something you should enjoy doing.
Grow up and realize that people have feelings and your not the center of the universe.
If you break someones heart then so be it, you gotta do what you gotta do, but its not a "cool" thing to do nor is it something you should enjoy doing.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.