You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
qualifying myself and trying to help you out are two completely different things.Originally posted by Vilempror
Porky, if you don't feel a need to qualify yourself to me, why do you persist in defending your total lack of an opinion?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
So basically she's fat right and you don't want to admit it..Its ok. p*ssy is p*ssy in the end, it ain't crossed and doesn't stick out so its ok..Originally posted by Vilempror
Alright boys, here be the proverbial scoop. A girl in one of my classes is totally into me � and I do mean totally, I�m getting so many IOIs it isn�t even funny. I KNOW I could easily land her if I wanted to, but I�m not sure if it�s a good long term idea. The reason being, she�s only like a HB6, maybe 7. Maybe 6 is a little harsh, I don�t know. See she�s not unattractive, she�s just a little chubby. (Let me clarify that last statement, she is definitely NOT A FAT CHICK. There are a couple fat chicks in that class, and she is much better looking than them.) Basically, she looks like a HB who�s starting to let herself go a bit. Anyways, based on what I�ve said, I�d like your guys opinion on this simple question:
Do you think sleeping with this chick would be:
a) Beneficial to my rep/self confidence/etc., and why
b) Detrimental to my rep/self confidence/etc., and why
Thanks in advance for your opinions guys.