That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
qualifying myself and trying to help you out are two completely different things.Originally posted by Vilempror
Porky, if you don't feel a need to qualify yourself to me, why do you persist in defending your total lack of an opinion?
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
So basically she's fat right and you don't want to admit it..Its ok. p*ssy is p*ssy in the end, it ain't crossed and doesn't stick out so its ok..Originally posted by Vilempror
Alright boys, here be the proverbial scoop. A girl in one of my classes is totally into me � and I do mean totally, I�m getting so many IOIs it isn�t even funny. I KNOW I could easily land her if I wanted to, but I�m not sure if it�s a good long term idea. The reason being, she�s only like a HB6, maybe 7. Maybe 6 is a little harsh, I don�t know. See she�s not unattractive, she�s just a little chubby. (Let me clarify that last statement, she is definitely NOT A FAT CHICK. There are a couple fat chicks in that class, and she is much better looking than them.) Basically, she looks like a HB who�s starting to let herself go a bit. Anyways, based on what I�ve said, I�d like your guys opinion on this simple question:
Do you think sleeping with this chick would be:
a) Beneficial to my rep/self confidence/etc., and why
b) Detrimental to my rep/self confidence/etc., and why
Thanks in advance for your opinions guys.