"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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To bang or not to bang?

Vilempror

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Porky, if you don't feel a need to qualify yourself to me, why do you persist in defending your total lack of an opinion?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Although maybe put harshly, Porky's advice is the best you have recieved. We have no idea what you or what the people in your school are like, so the best idea is to just do what you want. If this chick is attractive to you then go ahead and do her without thinking twice about it. This chick is obviously not grotesque and unless you make a habit out of doing nasties then your reputation will never be hurt. A man wants to f*** as often as possible and if you handle the situation like a man (dont become pvssy wipped) no one will care. The only way it could hurt you is if you go to school worried and insecure about it.

Remember you could pass up tons of opportunites in HS because your worried about your rep and end up not getting laid at all.
 

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Thank you, Bombshell, for translating Porky's insults and condescending drivel into comprehensible advice.

And thank you, Porky, this exchange has been entertaining, although an argument loses something when you have days to think of a comeback.
:rolleyes:

Sadly, this thread has changed from a legitimate question into a flame war (surprise, surprise), so I see no reason to continue.
 

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A few days have past since you started this topic. So did you bang the fat chick or not?? And how did it affect your reputation?? :crackup:
 

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Originally posted by Vilempror
Porky, if you don't feel a need to qualify yourself to me, why do you persist in defending your total lack of an opinion?
qualifying myself and trying to help you out are two completely different things.

you have a lot to learn, kid. bombshell didn't clarify anything I said, he was just more willing to wipe your ass for you.

I gave it to you straight and simple in the first post, and then you b!tched andinsulted me and others. don't play the victim card. if you can't see good advice, even when it's from somebody you don't like, then you have a lot of growing up to do.

as for my total "lack of an opinion"....which one of us can't decide for himself whether or not he should hook up with a girl?
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by Vilempror
Alright boys, here be the proverbial scoop. A girl in one of my classes is totally into me � and I do mean totally, I�m getting so many IOIs it isn�t even funny. I KNOW I could easily land her if I wanted to, but I�m not sure if it�s a good long term idea. The reason being, she�s only like a HB6, maybe 7. Maybe 6 is a little harsh, I don�t know. See she�s not unattractive, she�s just a little chubby. (Let me clarify that last statement, she is definitely NOT A FAT CHICK. There are a couple fat chicks in that class, and she is much better looking than them.) Basically, she looks like a HB who�s starting to let herself go a bit. Anyways, based on what I�ve said, I�d like your guys opinion on this simple question:

Do you think sleeping with this chick would be:
a) Beneficial to my rep/self confidence/etc., and why
b) Detrimental to my rep/self confidence/etc., and why

Thanks in advance for your opinions guys.
So basically she's fat right and you don't want to admit it..Its ok. p*ssy is p*ssy in the end, it ain't crossed and doesn't stick out so its ok..

Now on banging. If she's into you, just ask her if she wants to kiss you, or kiss her, or....ask her to hang out outside of class and then kiss her.
 
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