Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
qualifying myself and trying to help you out are two completely different things.Originally posted by Vilempror
Porky, if you don't feel a need to qualify yourself to me, why do you persist in defending your total lack of an opinion?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
So basically she's fat right and you don't want to admit it..Its ok. p*ssy is p*ssy in the end, it ain't crossed and doesn't stick out so its ok..Originally posted by Vilempror
Alright boys, here be the proverbial scoop. A girl in one of my classes is totally into me � and I do mean totally, I�m getting so many IOIs it isn�t even funny. I KNOW I could easily land her if I wanted to, but I�m not sure if it�s a good long term idea. The reason being, she�s only like a HB6, maybe 7. Maybe 6 is a little harsh, I don�t know. See she�s not unattractive, she�s just a little chubby. (Let me clarify that last statement, she is definitely NOT A FAT CHICK. There are a couple fat chicks in that class, and she is much better looking than them.) Basically, she looks like a HB who�s starting to let herself go a bit. Anyways, based on what I�ve said, I�d like your guys opinion on this simple question:
Do you think sleeping with this chick would be:
a) Beneficial to my rep/self confidence/etc., and why
b) Detrimental to my rep/self confidence/etc., and why
Thanks in advance for your opinions guys.