"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
To bang or not to bang?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Remember you could pass up tons of opportunites in HS because your worried about your rep and end up not getting laid at all.
And thank you, Porky, this exchange has been entertaining, although an argument loses something when you have days to think of a comeback.
Sadly, this thread has changed from a legitimate question into a flame war (surprise, surprise), so I see no reason to continue.
qualifying myself and trying to help you out are two completely different things.
you have a lot to learn, kid. bombshell didn't clarify anything I said, he was just more willing to wipe your ass for you.
I gave it to you straight and simple in the first post, and then you b!tched andinsulted me and others. don't play the victim card. if you can't see good advice, even when it's from somebody you don't like, then you have a lot of growing up to do.
as for my total "lack of an opinion"....which one of us can't decide for himself whether or not he should hook up with a girl?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Dimebag_Darrell
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So basically she's fat right and you don't want to admit it..Its ok. p*ssy is p*ssy in the end, it ain't crossed and doesn't stick out so its ok..
Now on banging. If she's into you, just ask her if she wants to kiss you, or kiss her, or....ask her to hang out outside of class and then kiss her.