To all the don juans here

[LogMeIn]

If you are so great at picking up women

What is keeping you from becoming rich and famous?
I mean why are you still here?

Shouldn't all aspect of your life have benefited from the fact

That all women wanted to be with you?

 

[Meektrop]

Lol yeah cuz fvckin upwards of 15 different women a week is all that life is about apparently

 

[MrJack]

I mean why are you still here?

There's always more to learn, it's called having a student mentality.

Also some may want to stick around and give advice to others that need help.

 

[marmel75]

There's always more to learn, it's called having a student mentality.

Also some may want to stick around and give advice to others that need help.

Or to weed through troll posts like this that are starting to appear more than real posts

 

[Haze]

If you are so great at picking up women

What is keeping you from becoming rich and famous?
I mean why are you still here?

Shouldn't all aspect of your life have benefited from the fact

That all women wanted to be with you?

So Suave is a safe space, coping mechanism for social outcasts that live cartoon character lives online in a desperate attempt to impress other social misfits.

Pray for them.

 

[marmel75]

You're not the first person in the history of SS to ask this question in one form or another, and every time I see it, I see a person who doesn't get what success is when it comes to women.

People who ask this question almost always assume that this kind of success is when you rarely or never fail. So in their minds, a man who talks about his greatest conquests MUST either be, or is pretending to be, the George Clooney/Brad Pitt type who succeeds wildly and succeeds often.

But the truth is, any man who is truly successful with women is also going to be a man who deals with his fair share of failure and rejection too. The one member here who immediately comes to mind as a good example of this is @TheGambino . He wins big, loses big sometimes and isn't afraid to show it all. That's what success typically is. And that's why a lot of guys are "still here", even when they can land those big successes.

A man who asks this question typically doesn't get that. That is his weakness, not someone else's.

Now some guys aren't humble enough to admit this side of their game. Some just choose to focus on positives rather than negatives. But neither means these experiences aren't there.

And yeah, some guys here and there are faking it too, but who cares about them. They are only lying to themselves.

As with anything in life...

"Show me a man who has never failed and I'll show you a man who has never succeeded at much of anything."

 

[guru1000]

A man who lives only for himself, and glorifies only in own success will eventually feel very empty.

The only thing that keeps my glass full is giving back to those who have potential or desire to be greater.

Also, in the stories and words I use to motivate others, I also motivate myself and remind myself who I am.

 

[sosousage]

I think chasing success and women is similar but its not the same thing. sometimes it takes a lot of isolating to learn something that you could use later in job. do women like people who isolate a lot? no

For example most nerdy guys have really good payments but their personalities and behavior habits are pathetics, they are antisocial etc. @bigneil makes ****load on programming (at least thats what he claims) but you could clearly see hes not cool guy lmao.

And its not just about him, women in general hate IT guys unless hes got rid of these negative characterics that often are associated with IT guys. But even then I wouldnt say im nerd