"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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i mean having photos online and having women commenting your eyes, the landscape, your dog, cat, car, wall whatever everything except you, your face, body.

do they do this on purpose or they do this thinking you wont understand that you are not their type?

why not just saying you are butt ugly? (which i dont think i am) are they afraid? is it cowardice? or is just their way of being *****es?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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mby their gaming you? you know how when you talk to a really hot girl you try NOT to compliment her appearance but other things to throw her off and make her question herself and seek your validation--is this not the same thing their just flipping th script? just a thought.
 

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girls normally don't reveal things like that because with them less is more and they want to keep the guys guessing. a guy that is guessing is more likely to make a move and the girl then has the power to whether reject him or not. it's all about not revealing your cards early and maintaining power over the opposite sex.
 

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@ The Gamer

never thought about it that way. but i also notice the same women have different approaches to different men. and by saying this i think you understand what i mean dont you?
 

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IKO69 said:
girls normally don't reveal things like that because with them less is more and they want to keep the guys guessing. a guy that is guessing is more likely to make a move and the girl then has the power to whether reject him or not. it's all about not revealing your cards early and maintaining power over the opposite sex.
iko i thought that when a woman likes you she doesnt play those stupid games she instead gives you hints that she is interested. i think that's not the case here as comments they give are the same: eyes, pets, landscape... i think they are just being

a) being nasty little *****es

b ) telling you you are uninteresting in a stupid way hoping you wont see through their "politeness"
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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check this philipino woman who added me as a friend.

From:
Aleen C

To:
Me

Date:
Jan 3, 2009 3:35 AM

Subject:
Re: hi
Message:

u didnt notice that ur a nice guy huh ill invite u in a chat lets go



i mean come on how can she say that im a nice guy without even knowing me? by a pic or two? yeah right...
 

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NeedToImprove said:
iko i thought that when a woman likes you she doesnt play those stupid games she instead gives you hints that she is interested. i think that's not the case here as comments they give are the same: eyes, pets, landscape... i think they are just being

a) being nasty little *****es

b ) telling you you are uninteresting in a stupid way hoping you wont see through their "politeness"
Nope. Girls are usaully straightforward with guys they do not like unless they feel like using them. When girls like someone, they normally tend to be confusing and play hard to get it. It's stupid really but it's something that should always be in the back of your mind when interacting with women.
 
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