"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tired of this ****

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i mean having photos online and having women commenting your eyes, the landscape, your dog, cat, car, wall whatever everything except you, your face, body.

do they do this on purpose or they do this thinking you wont understand that you are not their type?

why not just saying you are butt ugly? (which i dont think i am) are they afraid? is it cowardice? or is just their way of being *****es?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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mby their gaming you? you know how when you talk to a really hot girl you try NOT to compliment her appearance but other things to throw her off and make her question herself and seek your validation--is this not the same thing their just flipping th script? just a thought.
 

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girls normally don't reveal things like that because with them less is more and they want to keep the guys guessing. a guy that is guessing is more likely to make a move and the girl then has the power to whether reject him or not. it's all about not revealing your cards early and maintaining power over the opposite sex.
 

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@ The Gamer

never thought about it that way. but i also notice the same women have different approaches to different men. and by saying this i think you understand what i mean dont you?
 

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IKO69 said:
girls normally don't reveal things like that because with them less is more and they want to keep the guys guessing. a guy that is guessing is more likely to make a move and the girl then has the power to whether reject him or not. it's all about not revealing your cards early and maintaining power over the opposite sex.
iko i thought that when a woman likes you she doesnt play those stupid games she instead gives you hints that she is interested. i think that's not the case here as comments they give are the same: eyes, pets, landscape... i think they are just being

a) being nasty little *****es

b ) telling you you are uninteresting in a stupid way hoping you wont see through their "politeness"
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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check this philipino woman who added me as a friend.

From:
Aleen C

To:
Me

Date:
Jan 3, 2009 3:35 AM

Subject:
Re: hi
Message:

u didnt notice that ur a nice guy huh ill invite u in a chat lets go



i mean come on how can she say that im a nice guy without even knowing me? by a pic or two? yeah right...
 

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NeedToImprove said:
iko i thought that when a woman likes you she doesnt play those stupid games she instead gives you hints that she is interested. i think that's not the case here as comments they give are the same: eyes, pets, landscape... i think they are just being

a) being nasty little *****es

b ) telling you you are uninteresting in a stupid way hoping you wont see through their "politeness"
Nope. Girls are usaully straightforward with guys they do not like unless they feel like using them. When girls like someone, they normally tend to be confusing and play hard to get it. It's stupid really but it's something that should always be in the back of your mind when interacting with women.
 
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