"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Tired of this ****

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i mean having photos online and having women commenting your eyes, the landscape, your dog, cat, car, wall whatever everything except you, your face, body.

do they do this on purpose or they do this thinking you wont understand that you are not their type?

why not just saying you are butt ugly? (which i dont think i am) are they afraid? is it cowardice? or is just their way of being *****es?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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mby their gaming you? you know how when you talk to a really hot girl you try NOT to compliment her appearance but other things to throw her off and make her question herself and seek your validation--is this not the same thing their just flipping th script? just a thought.
 

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girls normally don't reveal things like that because with them less is more and they want to keep the guys guessing. a guy that is guessing is more likely to make a move and the girl then has the power to whether reject him or not. it's all about not revealing your cards early and maintaining power over the opposite sex.
 

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@ The Gamer

never thought about it that way. but i also notice the same women have different approaches to different men. and by saying this i think you understand what i mean dont you?
 

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IKO69 said:
girls normally don't reveal things like that because with them less is more and they want to keep the guys guessing. a guy that is guessing is more likely to make a move and the girl then has the power to whether reject him or not. it's all about not revealing your cards early and maintaining power over the opposite sex.
iko i thought that when a woman likes you she doesnt play those stupid games she instead gives you hints that she is interested. i think that's not the case here as comments they give are the same: eyes, pets, landscape... i think they are just being

a) being nasty little *****es

b ) telling you you are uninteresting in a stupid way hoping you wont see through their "politeness"
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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check this philipino woman who added me as a friend.

From:
Aleen C

To:
Me

Date:
Jan 3, 2009 3:35 AM

Subject:
Re: hi
Message:

u didnt notice that ur a nice guy huh ill invite u in a chat lets go



i mean come on how can she say that im a nice guy without even knowing me? by a pic or two? yeah right...
 

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NeedToImprove said:
iko i thought that when a woman likes you she doesnt play those stupid games she instead gives you hints that she is interested. i think that's not the case here as comments they give are the same: eyes, pets, landscape... i think they are just being

a) being nasty little *****es

b ) telling you you are uninteresting in a stupid way hoping you wont see through their "politeness"
Nope. Girls are usaully straightforward with guys they do not like unless they feel like using them. When girls like someone, they normally tend to be confusing and play hard to get it. It's stupid really but it's something that should always be in the back of your mind when interacting with women.
 
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