"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Tired of this ****

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i mean having photos online and having women commenting your eyes, the landscape, your dog, cat, car, wall whatever everything except you, your face, body.

do they do this on purpose or they do this thinking you wont understand that you are not their type?

why not just saying you are butt ugly? (which i dont think i am) are they afraid? is it cowardice? or is just their way of being *****es?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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mby their gaming you? you know how when you talk to a really hot girl you try NOT to compliment her appearance but other things to throw her off and make her question herself and seek your validation--is this not the same thing their just flipping th script? just a thought.
 

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girls normally don't reveal things like that because with them less is more and they want to keep the guys guessing. a guy that is guessing is more likely to make a move and the girl then has the power to whether reject him or not. it's all about not revealing your cards early and maintaining power over the opposite sex.
 

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@ The Gamer

never thought about it that way. but i also notice the same women have different approaches to different men. and by saying this i think you understand what i mean dont you?
 

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IKO69 said:
girls normally don't reveal things like that because with them less is more and they want to keep the guys guessing. a guy that is guessing is more likely to make a move and the girl then has the power to whether reject him or not. it's all about not revealing your cards early and maintaining power over the opposite sex.
iko i thought that when a woman likes you she doesnt play those stupid games she instead gives you hints that she is interested. i think that's not the case here as comments they give are the same: eyes, pets, landscape... i think they are just being

a) being nasty little *****es

b ) telling you you are uninteresting in a stupid way hoping you wont see through their "politeness"
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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check this philipino woman who added me as a friend.

From:
Aleen C

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Me

Date:
Jan 3, 2009 3:35 AM

Subject:
Re: hi
Message:

u didnt notice that ur a nice guy huh ill invite u in a chat lets go



i mean come on how can she say that im a nice guy without even knowing me? by a pic or two? yeah right...
 

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NeedToImprove said:
iko i thought that when a woman likes you she doesnt play those stupid games she instead gives you hints that she is interested. i think that's not the case here as comments they give are the same: eyes, pets, landscape... i think they are just being

a) being nasty little *****es

b ) telling you you are uninteresting in a stupid way hoping you wont see through their "politeness"
Nope. Girls are usaully straightforward with guys they do not like unless they feel like using them. When girls like someone, they normally tend to be confusing and play hard to get it. It's stupid really but it's something that should always be in the back of your mind when interacting with women.
 
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