"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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This thread is all about reframing a sh1t test... All you have to do is look at the quote the person said before you and reframe it as fast and as best as you can...

after you reframe the sh1t test, leave a sh1t test for the next person to reframe!

ex. sh1t test: I could really go for a coffee right now!
reframe: me too! get me one while you're at it!

alright. lets have some fun with this!

sh1t test: Can you do me a favor for me??
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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reframe: Possibly, what's in it for me?

sh!t test: (as you go to take her pants off) "I don't think we should be doing this.."
 

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keepitirie said:
This thread is all about reframing a sh1t test... All you have to do is look at the quote the person said before you and reframe it as fast and as best as you can...

after you reframe the sh1t test, leave a sh1t test for the next person to reframe!

ex. sh1t test: I could really go for a coffee right now!
reframe: me too! get me one while you're at it!

alright. lets have some fun with this!

sh1t test: Can you do me a favor for me??
thats not a **** test, she is just suggesting to go for a coffee.
 

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Scars said:
reframe: Possibly, what's in it for me?

sh!t test: (as you go to take her pants off) "I don't think we should be doing this.."
Good thing I dont pay you to think.. ROFL!
 

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kingy said:
thats not a **** test, she is just suggesting to go for a coffee.
on the contrary my friend. some people just blantantly say, "ok, let me buy you one."

this one was the easy sh1t test so everyone would get a feel for it.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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remember to leave a sh1t test for someone else to reframe.

sh1t test: how many girls have you been with?
 

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keepitirie said:
remember to leave a sh1t test for someone else to reframe.

sh1t test: how many girls have you been with?
"you mean this week?"

I can't think of a sh1t test to leave right now.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Skydiver43127 said:
sh1t test: "I hate guys who only think about sex"
reframe: If that were true you wouldn’t love me.

sh1t test: We are friends right?
 

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sh1t test: We are friends right?
Of course my horse!!

STest: "You love me, don´t you?"
 

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Blue Phoenix said:
Of course my horse!!

STest: "You love me, don´t you?"
reframe: no, im in it for the sex.

s test: i think your best friend is hot
 

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Ease said:
reframe: no, im in it for the sex.

s test: i think your best friend is hot
reframe: me too, hook me up with her.

s test: you're being too pushy (attempting kiss close)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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pete101 said:
s test: you're being too pushy (attempting kiss close)
If I was being too pushy your ass would be lying on the ground right now.

S-test: Buy me a drink.

Btw this is a very intriguing and entertaining thread, +rep.
 

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Are you being serious or is this some type of metaphor? If you've actually convinced yourself that a woman who says "I could really go for a coffee" is testing you in some way, you really ought to chill. The reply "Me too! get me one while you're at it" will seem either comical in a juvenile way or just plain juvenile.
 

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Abcd said:
Are you being serious or is this some type of metaphor? If you've actually convinced yourself that a woman who says "I could really go for a coffee" is testing you in some way, you really ought to chill. The reply "Me too! get me one while you're at it" will seem either comical in a juvenile way or just plain juvenile.
umm isn't everything a woman does a test?
 

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umm isn't everything a woman does a test?
Sure - everything a woman does is a test, the government is out to get you, and when anybody says they could "go for a coffee," you better have a jerky retort handy or boy will you fail that examination.

Or, maybe some people are so wrapped up in delusions that they are missing the big picture. Just gonna throw that out there.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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