You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Nope, foreplay is least important. Such nonsense is novice thinking. Women want to mostly be fvcked, hard and quickly, when they're turned on by your aura. But they also appreciate love-making as a sometimes change and novelty. Then you're also a romantic and a "sensitive" soul, after all. And hey, man, I'm a hopeless romantic too.Before you engage in any sexual activity make sure your replenished, and well rested for your testosterone levels to be at optimal levels. Firstly, foreplay is important so you want to start by kissing and rubbing your hands over her body in a sensual way. You also want to be extremely intuitive and cater to the womans needs first, than yours. Performing Oral Sex is another way to create a smooth transition from foreplay, maybe start with kissing her from her chest to her stomach, and then start performing oral sex on your partner. You also want to use sex positions that you find the most comfortable and maintain a refined rhythm where you can speed it up, and slow it down. If your also looking to make her squirt, make sure she is very replenished before you engage and ask for her permission. It may be draining on her body if she is not fully replenished, so communication is key.
Women are not like men in the way they get turned on. Men are like rockets and shoot up immediately with a hard on erection, women are like airplanes on the runway taking off so they need to get moist and lubricated to become wet. Foreplay is a great way to get her turned on and it's much more intuitive. Women don't want no "one minute man", so they don't want to be f'ed quickly at all. Women do like a hard pounding with a steady rhythm preferably in the doggystyle position, and when her back is laying flat on a mattress, and the man is standing beside the mattress penetrating her. Don't take your sex tips from internet pornography, that's more created for masturbatory purposes. Look into sex education material e.g. blu rays, dvds. Google it.Nope, foreplay is least important. Such nonsense is novice thinking. Women want to mostly be fvcked, hard and quickly, when they're turned on by your aura. But they also appreciate love-making as a sometimes change and novelty. Then you're also a romantic and a "sensitive" soul, after all. And hey, man, I'm a hopeless romantic too.![]()
It's clear you're clueless, dude.Women are not like men in the way they get turned on. Men are like rockets and shoot up immediately with a hard on erection, women are like airplanes on the runway taking off so they need to get moist and lubricated to become wet. Foreplay is a great way to get her turned on and it's much more intuitive. Women don't want no "one minute man", so they don't want to be f'ed quickly at all. Women do like a hard pounding with a steady rhythm preferably in the doggystyle position, and when her back is laying flat on a mattress, and the man is standing beside the mattress penetrating her. Don't take your sex tips from internet pornography, that's more created for masturbatory purposes. Look into sex education material e.g. blu rays, dvds. Google it.
Your projecting, I read your original post and it's a unrefined template. It's counter intuitive and androgynous.It's clear you're clueless, dude.
There's no shame in being inexperienced; but it's to no one's credit either.Your projecting, I read your original post and it's a unrefined template. It's counter intuitive and androgynous.
"Tease her sometimes. Make her guess when you're going to insert it, and sometimes prolong it after she would have expected it to have already happened by am inexperienced beta who only cares about getting himself off. Rub her pvssy and cl!t with your member and make her think you're going to insert it, but procrastinate."
The teasing would be considered foreplay. But this idea of making her guess where your going to insert it can also get you in trouble, and make you seem like a creep. You don't need to manipulate her before penetration, that's creepy. It's also feminine. A man isn't indecisive he know's what he wants.
"Rub her pvssy and cl!t with your member and make her think you're going to insert it, but procrastinate."
You can smack your pe on her c lit repeatedly and finger her p ussy this can be pre penetration and still be considered foreplay but more sexual. But this whole procrastination thing will fall under manipulation and she will get turned off by your indecisiveness.
Your unrefined and counter intuitive. You need to be humble and stop over compensating.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I agree. But this is the kind of thing where 20 years later, they might come back and write a tell all book about you, if not bring charges. Especially if you have gained any sort of notoriety, or if they feel you have slighted them in some way. But it's a catch 22 type of situation. If you're going to do it right, you have to be dominant, and you can't be asking her to sign consent forms at every step.One word. Dominance.
And never ask for permission.
The teasing would be considered foreplay. But this idea of making her guess where your going to insert it can also get you in trouble, and make you seem like a creep. You don't need to manipulate her before penetration, that's creepy. It's also feminine. A man isn't indecisive he know's what he wants.
My take is completely opposite. It shows dominance, masculinity - you're the one with the d!ck and you decide when to insert it, also you're not a horny boy who sticks it in as soon as he gets the chance - and variety (you're not following the same pattern). All these 3 are like catnip to women.But this whole procrastination thing will fall under manipulation and she will get turned off by your indecisiveness.
@Oasis45 's advice reads like it was taken from a textbook written by a virgin.My take is completely opposite. It shows dominance, masculinity - you're the one with the d!ck and you decide when to insert it, also you're not a horny boy who sticks it in as soon as he gets the chance - and variety (you're not following the same pattern). All these 3 are like catnip to women.
Only foolish, silly little boys take advice from women on how to please them. Women may know WHEN they're pleased; but they're oblivious to the HOW, the methods that result in their pleasure. That knowledge is coveted by the great lovemakers only, less than 1% of all men.Find and watch the video series "Two Women Teach Sex" and thank me later.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
If you haven't watched it then your opinion is meaningless. One of the best things I ever did for myself and anyone who has watched it will tell you the same thing.Only foolish, silly little boys take advice from women on how to please them. Women may know WHEN they're pleased; but they're oblivious to the HOW, the methods that result in their pleasure. That knowledge is coveted by the great lovemakers only, less than 1% of all men.
I Googled it, and apparently the course is no longer available. But I read a review, and one of the "teachers" said sex is 98% of the success of a relationship. Those are the words of a lusty, sex-crazed fool. She's clueless.If you haven't watched it then your opinion is meaningless. One of the best things I ever did for myself and anyone who has watched it will tell you the same thing.
Got it...considering the vast majority of men are terrible in the bedroom, I am actually happy there are guys out there that think like you. Makes me stand out.I Googled it, and apparently the course is no longer available. But I read a review, and one of the "teachers" said sex is 98% of the success of a relationship. Those are the words of a lusty, sex-crazed fool. She's clueless.
How does it make you stand out? And is nothing more important to you than personal glory? You remind me of Samuel from "Legends of the Fall".Got it...considering the vast majority of men are terrible in the bedroom, I am actually happy there are guys out there that think like you. Makes me stand out.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.