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tips to **** a woman properly

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I need some tips on how to really **** a woman to the point where she gets obsessed .
could be techniques
what to do/ what not to do
I am waiting guys :)
 

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The secret to giving great sex is to be unpredictable and defy a woman's expectations of what she thinks is going to happen next. The great lover makes everything a welcomed (and sometimes even a disappointing) surprise (so that she craves what the next sexu@l experience is going to be like).

This falls into three phases:

1) Before penetration
2) During penetration
3) After your climax

1) BEFORE PENETRATION

Tease her sometimes. Make her guess when you're going to insert it, and sometimes prolong it after she would have expected it to have already happened by am inexperienced beta who only cares about getting himself off. Rub her pvssy and cl!t with your member and make her think you're going to insert it, but procrastinate. Sometimes, insert the tip, but then pull out. Then interject this with kissing and fondling as a commercial. Make her want it, more and more.

But that's only sometimes.

Other times, just jam it in there so quick she didn't know what happened.

And everything in between.

2) DURING PENETRATION

Great loving-making and fvcking is a combination of rhythm and depth and angle and position and duration. These must be mastered so that it's second nature and intuitive and organic in accord with what YOU feel. You're the one creating and engineering the experience for her. Sometimes you make love, slow and steady, in all its romance; other times you fvck her brains out like a wild, carnal beast. And everything in between. If you don't know what you're going to do next, neither will she. If you can surprise yourself, you will surprise her too.

Achieving this state of mind is the secret to being a sex god!

a) RHYTHM AND DEPTH

This is your bread and butter. There are almost infinite combinations. Think Morse Code. You have short, shallow thrusts, and you have deep, penetrating thrusts. These can be woven into different patterns as a loop, like the chords of a song. And they can be changed, like a verse moving into a chorus, and back again. Two shallow, one deep. Repeat for a while. Then change. Don't forget the middle ground. Come up with your own patterns utilizing these elements.

b) ANGLE

You can insert your member from a variety of different angles as you're fvcking, which will stimulate different areas inside her. Mixed with your rhythm and depth patterns, this does nothing but add to the flavor and unpredictability, and ultimately her satisfaction. Imagine a loop of 3 short thrusts, following by a deep one, but each of these thrusts penetrates her from a different angle? The possibilities are endless, and she, like hopefully you, don't know what's going to happen next.

c) POSITION

Sometimes you fvck in one position fast and hammering, and in a short period of time, and climax. But most times, you apply the principles I've already outlined, but every so often you change positions, and you transition smoothly without her knowing what's going on. You must do this naturally and organically, and again, you or her shouldn't know what's coming next. If you start fvcking her on the bed and you end up across the room on the floor, and she didn't know how it happened, you will be a god to her. She will worship you.

d) DURATION

Sometimes 5 minutes, but most times, way more. Save the shortness for selfish, special occasions. But most times, make it last 1-2 hours. Whiskey can help here for the titanic sessions. But if you can't last an hour sober, you suck and need work. Sometimes, she will beg you to cvm. Sometimes, obey her. But more times than not, ignore her and keep fvcking her brains out. Cvm only when you think it's time.

3) AFTER YOUR CLIMAX

Call it quits or go for a second round. Mix it up. Please her fully sometimes; disappoint her and have her wanting more the next. Sometimes leave your flaccid member inside her till it gets hard again; other times, go to sleep in a cuddle. If you talk about each others dreams and aspirations in life now, she will bond to you like Valcro.

I could write a book about this, and it has crossed my mind, but this is the gist of what I've learned about being a great lover! But God! If you can stimulate her G-spot doggy style with you pen!s, she will NEVER forget you!
 
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Before you engage in any sexual activity make sure your replenished, and well rested for your testosterone levels to be at optimal levels. Firstly, foreplay is important so you want to start by kissing and rubbing your hands over her body in a sensual way. You also want to be extremely intuitive and cater to the womans needs first, than yours. Performing Oral Sex is another way to create a smooth transition from foreplay, maybe start with kissing her from her chest to her stomach, and then start performing oral sex on your partner. You also want to use sex positions that you find the most comfortable and maintain a refined rhythm where you can speed it up, and slow it down. If your also looking to make her squirt, make sure she is very replenished before you engage and ask for her permission. It may be draining on her body if she is not fully replenished, so communication is key.
 

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Before you engage in any sexual activity make sure your replenished, and well rested for your testosterone levels to be at optimal levels. Firstly, foreplay is important so you want to start by kissing and rubbing your hands over her body in a sensual way. You also want to be extremely intuitive and cater to the womans needs first, than yours. Performing Oral Sex is another way to create a smooth transition from foreplay, maybe start with kissing her from her chest to her stomach, and then start performing oral sex on your partner. You also want to use sex positions that you find the most comfortable and maintain a refined rhythm where you can speed it up, and slow it down. If your also looking to make her squirt, make sure she is very replenished before you engage and ask for her permission. It may be draining on her body if she is not fully replenished, so communication is key.
Nope, foreplay is least important. Such nonsense is novice thinking. Women want to mostly be fvcked, hard and quickly, when they're turned on by your aura. But they also appreciate love-making as a sometimes change and novelty. Then you're also a romantic and a "sensitive" soul, after all. And hey, man, I'm a hopeless romantic too. :)
 

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Nope, foreplay is least important. Such nonsense is novice thinking. Women want to mostly be fvcked, hard and quickly, when they're turned on by your aura. But they also appreciate love-making as a sometimes change and novelty. Then you're also a romantic and a "sensitive" soul, after all. And hey, man, I'm a hopeless romantic too. :)
Women are not like men in the way they get turned on. Men are like rockets and shoot up immediately with a hard on erection, women are like airplanes on the runway taking off so they need to get moist and lubricated to become wet. Foreplay is a great way to get her turned on and it's much more intuitive. Women don't want no "one minute man", so they don't want to be f'ed quickly at all. Women do like a hard pounding with a steady rhythm preferably in the doggystyle position, and when her back is laying flat on a mattress, and the man is standing beside the mattress penetrating her. Don't take your sex tips from internet pornography, that's more created for masturbatory purposes. Look into sex education material e.g. blu rays, dvds. Google it.
 

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Women are not like men in the way they get turned on. Men are like rockets and shoot up immediately with a hard on erection, women are like airplanes on the runway taking off so they need to get moist and lubricated to become wet. Foreplay is a great way to get her turned on and it's much more intuitive. Women don't want no "one minute man", so they don't want to be f'ed quickly at all. Women do like a hard pounding with a steady rhythm preferably in the doggystyle position, and when her back is laying flat on a mattress, and the man is standing beside the mattress penetrating her. Don't take your sex tips from internet pornography, that's more created for masturbatory purposes. Look into sex education material e.g. blu rays, dvds. Google it.
It's clear you're clueless, dude.
 

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It's clear you're clueless, dude.
Your projecting, I read your original post and it's a unrefined template. It's counter intuitive and androgynous.

"Tease her sometimes. Make her guess when you're going to insert it, and sometimes prolong it after she would have expected it to have already happened by am inexperienced beta who only cares about getting himself off. Rub her pvssy and cl!t with your member and make her think you're going to insert it, but procrastinate."

The teasing would be considered foreplay. But this idea of making her guess where your going to insert it can also get you in trouble, and make you seem like a creep. You don't need to manipulate her before penetration, that's creepy. It's also feminine. A man isn't indecisive he know's what he wants.

"Rub her pvssy and cl!t with your member and make her think you're going to insert it, but procrastinate."

You can smack your pe on her c lit repeatedly and finger her p ussy this can be pre penetration and still be considered foreplay but more sexual. But this whole procrastination thing will fall under manipulation and she will get turned off by your indecisiveness.

Your unrefined and counter intuitive. You need to be humble and stop over compensating.
 

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Your projecting, I read your original post and it's a unrefined template. It's counter intuitive and androgynous.

"Tease her sometimes. Make her guess when you're going to insert it, and sometimes prolong it after she would have expected it to have already happened by am inexperienced beta who only cares about getting himself off. Rub her pvssy and cl!t with your member and make her think you're going to insert it, but procrastinate."

The teasing would be considered foreplay. But this idea of making her guess where your going to insert it can also get you in trouble, and make you seem like a creep. You don't need to manipulate her before penetration, that's creepy. It's also feminine. A man isn't indecisive he know's what he wants.

"Rub her pvssy and cl!t with your member and make her think you're going to insert it, but procrastinate."

You can smack your pe on her c lit repeatedly and finger her p ussy this can be pre penetration and still be considered foreplay but more sexual. But this whole procrastination thing will fall under manipulation and she will get turned off by your indecisiveness.

Your unrefined and counter intuitive. You need to be humble and stop over compensating.
There's no shame in being inexperienced; but it's to no one's credit either.
 

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One word. Dominance.
And never ask for permission.
I agree. But this is the kind of thing where 20 years later, they might come back and write a tell all book about you, if not bring charges. Especially if you have gained any sort of notoriety, or if they feel you have slighted them in some way. But it's a catch 22 type of situation. If you're going to do it right, you have to be dominant, and you can't be asking her to sign consent forms at every step.
 

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The teasing would be considered foreplay. But this idea of making her guess where your going to insert it can also get you in trouble, and make you seem like a creep. You don't need to manipulate her before penetration, that's creepy. It's also feminine. A man isn't indecisive he know's what he wants.
But this whole procrastination thing will fall under manipulation and she will get turned off by your indecisiveness.
My take is completely opposite. It shows dominance, masculinity - you're the one with the d!ck and you decide when to insert it, also you're not a horny boy who sticks it in as soon as he gets the chance - and variety (you're not following the same pattern). All these 3 are like catnip to women.
 

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My take is completely opposite. It shows dominance, masculinity - you're the one with the d!ck and you decide when to insert it, also you're not a horny boy who sticks it in as soon as he gets the chance - and variety (you're not following the same pattern). All these 3 are like catnip to women.
@Oasis45 's advice reads like it was taken from a textbook written by a virgin.
 

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Find and watch the video series "Two Women Teach Sex" and thank me later.
Only foolish, silly little boys take advice from women on how to please them. Women may know WHEN they're pleased; but they're oblivious to the HOW, the methods that result in their pleasure. That knowledge is coveted by the great lovemakers only, less than 1% of all men.
 

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Only foolish, silly little boys take advice from women on how to please them. Women may know WHEN they're pleased; but they're oblivious to the HOW, the methods that result in their pleasure. That knowledge is coveted by the great lovemakers only, less than 1% of all men.
If you haven't watched it then your opinion is meaningless. One of the best things I ever did for myself and anyone who has watched it will tell you the same thing.
 

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If you haven't watched it then your opinion is meaningless. One of the best things I ever did for myself and anyone who has watched it will tell you the same thing.
I Googled it, and apparently the course is no longer available. But I read a review, and one of the "teachers" said sex is 98% of the success of a relationship. Those are the words of a lusty, sex-crazed fool. She's clueless.
 

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I Googled it, and apparently the course is no longer available. But I read a review, and one of the "teachers" said sex is 98% of the success of a relationship. Those are the words of a lusty, sex-crazed fool. She's clueless.
Got it...considering the vast majority of men are terrible in the bedroom, I am actually happy there are guys out there that think like you. Makes me stand out.
 

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Got it...considering the vast majority of men are terrible in the bedroom, I am actually happy there are guys out there that think like you. Makes me stand out.
How does it make you stand out? And is nothing more important to you than personal glory? You remind me of Samuel from "Legends of the Fall".
 
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