You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Nope, foreplay is least important. Such nonsense is novice thinking. Women want to mostly be fvcked, hard and quickly, when they're turned on by your aura. But they also appreciate love-making as a sometimes change and novelty. Then you're also a romantic and a "sensitive" soul, after all. And hey, man, I'm a hopeless romantic too.Before you engage in any sexual activity make sure your replenished, and well rested for your testosterone levels to be at optimal levels. Firstly, foreplay is important so you want to start by kissing and rubbing your hands over her body in a sensual way. You also want to be extremely intuitive and cater to the womans needs first, than yours. Performing Oral Sex is another way to create a smooth transition from foreplay, maybe start with kissing her from her chest to her stomach, and then start performing oral sex on your partner. You also want to use sex positions that you find the most comfortable and maintain a refined rhythm where you can speed it up, and slow it down. If your also looking to make her squirt, make sure she is very replenished before you engage and ask for her permission. It may be draining on her body if she is not fully replenished, so communication is key.
Women are not like men in the way they get turned on. Men are like rockets and shoot up immediately with a hard on erection, women are like airplanes on the runway taking off so they need to get moist and lubricated to become wet. Foreplay is a great way to get her turned on and it's much more intuitive. Women don't want no "one minute man", so they don't want to be f'ed quickly at all. Women do like a hard pounding with a steady rhythm preferably in the doggystyle position, and when her back is laying flat on a mattress, and the man is standing beside the mattress penetrating her. Don't take your sex tips from internet pornography, that's more created for masturbatory purposes. Look into sex education material e.g. blu rays, dvds. Google it.Nope, foreplay is least important. Such nonsense is novice thinking. Women want to mostly be fvcked, hard and quickly, when they're turned on by your aura. But they also appreciate love-making as a sometimes change and novelty. Then you're also a romantic and a "sensitive" soul, after all. And hey, man, I'm a hopeless romantic too.![]()
It's clear you're clueless, dude.Women are not like men in the way they get turned on. Men are like rockets and shoot up immediately with a hard on erection, women are like airplanes on the runway taking off so they need to get moist and lubricated to become wet. Foreplay is a great way to get her turned on and it's much more intuitive. Women don't want no "one minute man", so they don't want to be f'ed quickly at all. Women do like a hard pounding with a steady rhythm preferably in the doggystyle position, and when her back is laying flat on a mattress, and the man is standing beside the mattress penetrating her. Don't take your sex tips from internet pornography, that's more created for masturbatory purposes. Look into sex education material e.g. blu rays, dvds. Google it.
Your projecting, I read your original post and it's a unrefined template. It's counter intuitive and androgynous.It's clear you're clueless, dude.
There's no shame in being inexperienced; but it's to no one's credit either.Your projecting, I read your original post and it's a unrefined template. It's counter intuitive and androgynous.
"Tease her sometimes. Make her guess when you're going to insert it, and sometimes prolong it after she would have expected it to have already happened by am inexperienced beta who only cares about getting himself off. Rub her pvssy and cl!t with your member and make her think you're going to insert it, but procrastinate."
The teasing would be considered foreplay. But this idea of making her guess where your going to insert it can also get you in trouble, and make you seem like a creep. You don't need to manipulate her before penetration, that's creepy. It's also feminine. A man isn't indecisive he know's what he wants.
"Rub her pvssy and cl!t with your member and make her think you're going to insert it, but procrastinate."
You can smack your pe on her c lit repeatedly and finger her p ussy this can be pre penetration and still be considered foreplay but more sexual. But this whole procrastination thing will fall under manipulation and she will get turned off by your indecisiveness.
Your unrefined and counter intuitive. You need to be humble and stop over compensating.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I agree. But this is the kind of thing where 20 years later, they might come back and write a tell all book about you, if not bring charges. Especially if you have gained any sort of notoriety, or if they feel you have slighted them in some way. But it's a catch 22 type of situation. If you're going to do it right, you have to be dominant, and you can't be asking her to sign consent forms at every step.One word. Dominance.
And never ask for permission.
The teasing would be considered foreplay. But this idea of making her guess where your going to insert it can also get you in trouble, and make you seem like a creep. You don't need to manipulate her before penetration, that's creepy. It's also feminine. A man isn't indecisive he know's what he wants.
My take is completely opposite. It shows dominance, masculinity - you're the one with the d!ck and you decide when to insert it, also you're not a horny boy who sticks it in as soon as he gets the chance - and variety (you're not following the same pattern). All these 3 are like catnip to women.But this whole procrastination thing will fall under manipulation and she will get turned off by your indecisiveness.
@Oasis45 's advice reads like it was taken from a textbook written by a virgin.My take is completely opposite. It shows dominance, masculinity - you're the one with the d!ck and you decide when to insert it, also you're not a horny boy who sticks it in as soon as he gets the chance - and variety (you're not following the same pattern). All these 3 are like catnip to women.
Only foolish, silly little boys take advice from women on how to please them. Women may know WHEN they're pleased; but they're oblivious to the HOW, the methods that result in their pleasure. That knowledge is coveted by the great lovemakers only, less than 1% of all men.Find and watch the video series "Two Women Teach Sex" and thank me later.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
If you haven't watched it then your opinion is meaningless. One of the best things I ever did for myself and anyone who has watched it will tell you the same thing.Only foolish, silly little boys take advice from women on how to please them. Women may know WHEN they're pleased; but they're oblivious to the HOW, the methods that result in their pleasure. That knowledge is coveted by the great lovemakers only, less than 1% of all men.
I Googled it, and apparently the course is no longer available. But I read a review, and one of the "teachers" said sex is 98% of the success of a relationship. Those are the words of a lusty, sex-crazed fool. She's clueless.If you haven't watched it then your opinion is meaningless. One of the best things I ever did for myself and anyone who has watched it will tell you the same thing.
Got it...considering the vast majority of men are terrible in the bedroom, I am actually happy there are guys out there that think like you. Makes me stand out.I Googled it, and apparently the course is no longer available. But I read a review, and one of the "teachers" said sex is 98% of the success of a relationship. Those are the words of a lusty, sex-crazed fool. She's clueless.
How does it make you stand out? And is nothing more important to you than personal glory? You remind me of Samuel from "Legends of the Fall".Got it...considering the vast majority of men are terrible in the bedroom, I am actually happy there are guys out there that think like you. Makes me stand out.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.