"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Tips for when you start feeling "needy"

tryst type

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Like title says, been starting to feel fed up and a bit of neediness is making itself into how I interact with girls.

Part of me is just plain exhausted with all dating and the crap that comes along with it.

Last time this happened I wanted to just STOP everything that involved girls and concentrate on other things but then my sexual urges kick in and I find my will caving and I get back on the pursuit to only again now be at that same point.

Any tips to help overcome this?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Night-hawk

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Teach yourself to laugh at how unfunny it is to be needy to girls that aren't amusing you enough.
 

glass half full

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come to this site and read up. think of what you've been through with twits. have a beer, and go to bed. When you wake up, you'll be glad you did.
 

SecondHalf

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Your subject and message content read a little different.

If you meant, that when you start dating a woman, you get a little needy, possessive ..., that one is easily solvable ... spin more plates. The problem with that is that it can eat up some significant time.

If you meant, needy as sexually needy ... only one solution ... kind of a paradox :)

Perhaps you could elaborate a bit more.

SH
 

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SecondHalf said:
Your subject and message content read a little different.

If you meant, that when you start dating a woman, you get a little needy, possessive ..., that one is easily solvable ... spin more plates. The problem with that is that it can eat up some significant time.

If you meant, needy as sexually needy ... only one solution ... kind of a paradox :)

Perhaps you could elaborate a bit more.

SH
A little of both but definitely more sexually needy I guess. Especially when girls are tantalizing which it seems they like to do towards me to get more than just a sexual experience.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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