"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tips for when you start feeling "needy"

tryst type

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Like title says, been starting to feel fed up and a bit of neediness is making itself into how I interact with girls.

Part of me is just plain exhausted with all dating and the crap that comes along with it.

Last time this happened I wanted to just STOP everything that involved girls and concentrate on other things but then my sexual urges kick in and I find my will caving and I get back on the pursuit to only again now be at that same point.

Any tips to help overcome this?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Night-hawk

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Teach yourself to laugh at how unfunny it is to be needy to girls that aren't amusing you enough.
 

glass half full

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come to this site and read up. think of what you've been through with twits. have a beer, and go to bed. When you wake up, you'll be glad you did.
 

SecondHalf

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Your subject and message content read a little different.

If you meant, that when you start dating a woman, you get a little needy, possessive ..., that one is easily solvable ... spin more plates. The problem with that is that it can eat up some significant time.

If you meant, needy as sexually needy ... only one solution ... kind of a paradox :)

Perhaps you could elaborate a bit more.

SH
 

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SecondHalf said:
Your subject and message content read a little different.

If you meant, that when you start dating a woman, you get a little needy, possessive ..., that one is easily solvable ... spin more plates. The problem with that is that it can eat up some significant time.

If you meant, needy as sexually needy ... only one solution ... kind of a paradox :)

Perhaps you could elaborate a bit more.

SH
A little of both but definitely more sexually needy I guess. Especially when girls are tantalizing which it seems they like to do towards me to get more than just a sexual experience.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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