"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Tips for when you start feeling "needy"

tryst type

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Like title says, been starting to feel fed up and a bit of neediness is making itself into how I interact with girls.

Part of me is just plain exhausted with all dating and the crap that comes along with it.

Last time this happened I wanted to just STOP everything that involved girls and concentrate on other things but then my sexual urges kick in and I find my will caving and I get back on the pursuit to only again now be at that same point.

Any tips to help overcome this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Night-hawk

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Teach yourself to laugh at how unfunny it is to be needy to girls that aren't amusing you enough.
 

glass half full

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come to this site and read up. think of what you've been through with twits. have a beer, and go to bed. When you wake up, you'll be glad you did.
 

SecondHalf

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Your subject and message content read a little different.

If you meant, that when you start dating a woman, you get a little needy, possessive ..., that one is easily solvable ... spin more plates. The problem with that is that it can eat up some significant time.

If you meant, needy as sexually needy ... only one solution ... kind of a paradox :)

Perhaps you could elaborate a bit more.

SH
 

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SecondHalf said:
Your subject and message content read a little different.

If you meant, that when you start dating a woman, you get a little needy, possessive ..., that one is easily solvable ... spin more plates. The problem with that is that it can eat up some significant time.

If you meant, needy as sexually needy ... only one solution ... kind of a paradox :)

Perhaps you could elaborate a bit more.

SH
A little of both but definitely more sexually needy I guess. Especially when girls are tantalizing which it seems they like to do towards me to get more than just a sexual experience.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

Read more...

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