"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Packers2010

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I keep here about all these success people are having on tinder. My first experience didn't go so well. ( all I got was fake profile trying to get me to join a site and girls that didn't respond.)

I feel as if it's based 100% on looks due to the face the profile bit is really small

can anyone give me some tips about it?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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El Payaso

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Here's the only tip you need. It IS based on looks so have attractive pictures. It's as simple as that.

EDIT TO POST BELOW: There's nothing more. It's just purely looks. Most people don't even fill out the short profile and even if they do, it's pointless trivial stuff. It's purely looks.

Chatting with girls there isn't even hard either. I mean for you to chat with them, you both have to "like" each other. The girl has basically said, "Hey, I think you're really cute and I like you". What more green light do you need besides that?
 
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No there isn't that's why people like it.

That said I haven't been getting any matches but I wasn't clearly smiling in my picture so I've replaced it with one where I am. That should help.
 

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i now regard the following line: If you're just looking for sex please keep scrolling

as a clear green light and invitation to look for sex.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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