"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Packers2010

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I keep here about all these success people are having on tinder. My first experience didn't go so well. ( all I got was fake profile trying to get me to join a site and girls that didn't respond.)

I feel as if it's based 100% on looks due to the face the profile bit is really small

can anyone give me some tips about it?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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El Payaso

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Here's the only tip you need. It IS based on looks so have attractive pictures. It's as simple as that.

EDIT TO POST BELOW: There's nothing more. It's just purely looks. Most people don't even fill out the short profile and even if they do, it's pointless trivial stuff. It's purely looks.

Chatting with girls there isn't even hard either. I mean for you to chat with them, you both have to "like" each other. The girl has basically said, "Hey, I think you're really cute and I like you". What more green light do you need besides that?
 
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No there isn't that's why people like it.

That said I haven't been getting any matches but I wasn't clearly smiling in my picture so I've replaced it with one where I am. That should help.
 

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i now regard the following line: If you're just looking for sex please keep scrolling

as a clear green light and invitation to look for sex.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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