"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Packers2010

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I keep here about all these success people are having on tinder. My first experience didn't go so well. ( all I got was fake profile trying to get me to join a site and girls that didn't respond.)

I feel as if it's based 100% on looks due to the face the profile bit is really small

can anyone give me some tips about it?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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El Payaso

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Here's the only tip you need. It IS based on looks so have attractive pictures. It's as simple as that.

EDIT TO POST BELOW: There's nothing more. It's just purely looks. Most people don't even fill out the short profile and even if they do, it's pointless trivial stuff. It's purely looks.

Chatting with girls there isn't even hard either. I mean for you to chat with them, you both have to "like" each other. The girl has basically said, "Hey, I think you're really cute and I like you". What more green light do you need besides that?
 
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No there isn't that's why people like it.

That said I haven't been getting any matches but I wasn't clearly smiling in my picture so I've replaced it with one where I am. That should help.
 

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i now regard the following line: If you're just looking for sex please keep scrolling

as a clear green light and invitation to look for sex.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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