Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Packers2010

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I keep here about all these success people are having on tinder. My first experience didn't go so well. ( all I got was fake profile trying to get me to join a site and girls that didn't respond.)

I feel as if it's based 100% on looks due to the face the profile bit is really small

can anyone give me some tips about it?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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El Payaso

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Here's the only tip you need. It IS based on looks so have attractive pictures. It's as simple as that.

EDIT TO POST BELOW: There's nothing more. It's just purely looks. Most people don't even fill out the short profile and even if they do, it's pointless trivial stuff. It's purely looks.

Chatting with girls there isn't even hard either. I mean for you to chat with them, you both have to "like" each other. The girl has basically said, "Hey, I think you're really cute and I like you". What more green light do you need besides that?
 
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No there isn't that's why people like it.

That said I haven't been getting any matches but I wasn't clearly smiling in my picture so I've replaced it with one where I am. That should help.
 

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i now regard the following line: If you're just looking for sex please keep scrolling

as a clear green light and invitation to look for sex.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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