Yea I feel for you. If you're 5 foot 5 then put 5 7 on your profile. Women lie about their height on old big time too. Hell with them. I know hardly any guy, even tall men who dont add at least an inch to their height. I usually add 1 to 2 inches. If they're that picky over two inches they can go f themselves. If you get a tramp that bad then counter back that you had no idea she was fatter in person and see her jaw drop down. Gotta stop acting beta towards them. I see short guys with women. Old really beings out the worst of women thoughTry OLD at 5' 5".Get that initial look on her when you meet when her face says, "I had no idea he was this short".
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
@AttackFormation to quote Backbreaker ...it's like they have cancer and your d1ck is the cure. The corporate KPIs is an interesting topic. One of the reasons I love Asian ladies is they value hard work. Your average Euro scrag just wants the results of your hard work: successful business, buffed, promotion etc. Ie. a parasite
Asians support you working towards your goals.
Asians support you working towards your goals.
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The older I get, the more I realize that hedonism is for the birds.
Seemed like a good idea at the time, but now I'm left with nothing but time.
Seemed like a good idea at the time, but now I'm left with nothing but time.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
<5’9”. Still got dates and sex on Tinder. Got my GF from Tinder too.
Did you list your height or keep it off there? If I recall you don't need to list height. Been awhile since I used Tinder. I imagine in California it's a gold mine lol. You actually met someone decent on Tinder? I signed up for an account and all I saw was women who looked like sl*ts and hookers and a few ugly whales and decided to stick with the tradition OLD sites. It seemed like a POF with similar trash only you swipe.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Tinder doesn't require height. I listed 5'8". Lied a little . Used Tinder in CA and in the Midwest. Fine. Though lots more single moms in the Midwest. Met some great ladies. Including my current GF.
. Used Tinder in CA and in the Midwest. Fine. Though lots more single moms in the Midwest. Met some great ladies. Including my current GF.What part of midwest? I'm from St. Louis and OLD at least near my zipcode if I look doesn't have tons of single moms. Lots of chicks late 20s to 40 no kids or never married, professional and clean looking, not damaged goods. granted St. Louis I consider fringe midwest since I don't consider MO really a midwestern state as a whole.Tinder doesn't require height. I listed 5'8". Lied a little
In my neck of the woods in FL it's mostly post wall single moms on OLD, hence you see a lot of flak I get for chasing 40 year old moms. A 30 year old on Match or the good OLD sites is a golden unicorn around here if they're not a land whale.
Women are terrible of judging height and such. Women lie big time about height too on OLD. Women lie a lot on OLD in many ways.Tinder doesn't require height. I listed 5'8". Lied a little
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.