Yea I feel for you. If you're 5 foot 5 then put 5 7 on your profile. Women lie about their height on old big time too. Hell with them. I know hardly any guy, even tall men who dont add at least an inch to their height. I usually add 1 to 2 inches. If they're that picky over two inches they can go f themselves. If you get a tramp that bad then counter back that you had no idea she was fatter in person and see her jaw drop down. Gotta stop acting beta towards them. I see short guys with women. Old really beings out the worst of women thoughTry OLD at 5' 5".Get that initial look on her when you meet when her face says, "I had no idea he was this short".
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
@AttackFormation to quote Backbreaker ...it's like they have cancer and your d1ck is the cure. The corporate KPIs is an interesting topic. One of the reasons I love Asian ladies is they value hard work. Your average Euro scrag just wants the results of your hard work: successful business, buffed, promotion etc. Ie. a parasite
Asians support you working towards your goals.
Asians support you working towards your goals.
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The older I get, the more I realize that hedonism is for the birds.
Seemed like a good idea at the time, but now I'm left with nothing but time.
Seemed like a good idea at the time, but now I'm left with nothing but time.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
<5’9”. Still got dates and sex on Tinder. Got my GF from Tinder too.
Did you list your height or keep it off there? If I recall you don't need to list height. Been awhile since I used Tinder. I imagine in California it's a gold mine lol. You actually met someone decent on Tinder? I signed up for an account and all I saw was women who looked like sl*ts and hookers and a few ugly whales and decided to stick with the tradition OLD sites. It seemed like a POF with similar trash only you swipe.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
Tinder doesn't require height. I listed 5'8". Lied a little . Used Tinder in CA and in the Midwest. Fine. Though lots more single moms in the Midwest. Met some great ladies. Including my current GF.
. Used Tinder in CA and in the Midwest. Fine. Though lots more single moms in the Midwest. Met some great ladies. Including my current GF.What part of midwest? I'm from St. Louis and OLD at least near my zipcode if I look doesn't have tons of single moms. Lots of chicks late 20s to 40 no kids or never married, professional and clean looking, not damaged goods. granted St. Louis I consider fringe midwest since I don't consider MO really a midwestern state as a whole.Tinder doesn't require height. I listed 5'8". Lied a little
In my neck of the woods in FL it's mostly post wall single moms on OLD, hence you see a lot of flak I get for chasing 40 year old moms. A 30 year old on Match or the good OLD sites is a golden unicorn around here if they're not a land whale.
Women are terrible of judging height and such. Women lie big time about height too on OLD. Women lie a lot on OLD in many ways.Tinder doesn't require height. I listed 5'8". Lied a little
Hamurabimbi
Master Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.