I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
There is nothing to handle. Just shows you are inexperienced since this happens occasionally when you are meeting lots of women. You just meet up like normal and they will GIVE you their number without you asking if they like you at the end of the date. In and of itself it has no relevance or meaning.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Just keep motoring. It really means nothing as anyone can block phone numbers. When a woman doesn't want to give out a number, just go for setting up a date as quick as possible. That will let you know if she just fishing for attention or not.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Yeah meet up and stop worrying about it. Ive had this happen a few times too. If she likes you when you meet up she will give it to. Its not a big deal.
Show up a little bit late (5-15 minutes) , have a backup plan of activities for the day/time (nothing official, just an idea of something else to do),
I love coming back told posts like this, so lesson learned I took a few months off the game just getting my feet wet, started Tinder and this chick seemed super DTF but didn't wanna give out her number so i got her snaps (she sent nudes) we were supposed to meet up this weekend but now she blocked me on snapchat go figure......just another buffer
who said im not? I got another chick coming over in an hour and half. I like reading old post just to remind myself why i do what i do