You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
There is nothing to handle. Just shows you are inexperienced since this happens occasionally when you are meeting lots of women. You just meet up like normal and they will GIVE you their number without you asking if they like you at the end of the date. In and of itself it has no relevance or meaning.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Just keep motoring. It really means nothing as anyone can block phone numbers. When a woman doesn't want to give out a number, just go for setting up a date as quick as possible. That will let you know if she just fishing for attention or not.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Yeah meet up and stop worrying about it. Ive had this happen a few times too. If she likes you when you meet up she will give it to. Its not a big deal.
Show up a little bit late (5-15 minutes) , have a backup plan of activities for the day/time (nothing official, just an idea of something else to do),
I love coming back told posts like this, so lesson learned I took a few months off the game just getting my feet wet, started Tinder and this chick seemed super DTF but didn't wanna give out her number so i got her snaps (she sent nudes) we were supposed to meet up this weekend but now she blocked me on snapchat go figure......just another buffer
who said im not? I got another chick coming over in an hour and half. I like reading old post just to remind myself why i do what i do