MrWood
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why didnt you hit that?
I nailed a chick with 2 broken legs on her insurance holiday in Hawaii (circa 1988)
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Tinder experiment...
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I nailed a chick with 2 broken legs on her insurance holiday in Hawaii (circa 1988)
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
RichardTheFrog
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Because it wasn't my real picture.
And also because she stopped talking after I couldn't provide an Instagram or Facebook account.
MoreThanSmooth
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As I keep banging on about in every other thread, the whole 1-10 looks thing people base all this fake picture and attraction worth off of is totally overused. Some girls might consider a model like him a 10, some might consider him a mere 5 or 6.
Some women are into really fat dudes. Some guys are into really fat chicks. All this stuff saying that you can quantify attraction universally as 1-10 is b*llocks - unless someone is plainly extremely symmetrical or very unusual looking.
The obvious response would be: "But Smooth, movie stars are hot and everyone agrees this!" Well yeah. And some of them are very good looking. But some attractive women also think Steve Buscemi is an absolute hunk just by virtue of his being a movie star - fame is an aphrodisiac.
RichardTheFrog
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And some think Justin Timberlake is ugly.
I think height is very important, which unfortunately I don't have.
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If you've got the choice between a pretty-boy like a young Leonardo Di Caprio, or a "manly man" like Clint Eastwood in his Spaghetti Western prime...who is more attractive? Women really like both, for completely different reasons. It's completely subjective (though I'd rather be like Clint, because he's a badass rather than looking like a p*ssy who puts his face in a tub of vaseline every day).
Height does seem to be a factor that influences attraction to women subconsciously. But if you have the personality or physique to make up for it I imagine it isn't too bad.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
tinder is nonsense, im only on it because its comfortable to not move my ass. but its cancer and even loggin on these apps immediately makes you low bob who wastes his time meaninglessly messaging random women who arent in reality worth too much, and they wont even respond. if they will go on a date then that will be wasted time too.