MrWood
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why didnt you hit that?
I nailed a chick with 2 broken legs on her insurance holiday in Hawaii (circa 1988)
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Tinder experiment...
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I nailed a chick with 2 broken legs on her insurance holiday in Hawaii (circa 1988)
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
RichardTheFrog
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Because it wasn't my real picture.
And also because she stopped talking after I couldn't provide an Instagram or Facebook account.
MoreThanSmooth
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As I keep banging on about in every other thread, the whole 1-10 looks thing people base all this fake picture and attraction worth off of is totally overused. Some girls might consider a model like him a 10, some might consider him a mere 5 or 6.
Some women are into really fat dudes. Some guys are into really fat chicks. All this stuff saying that you can quantify attraction universally as 1-10 is b*llocks - unless someone is plainly extremely symmetrical or very unusual looking.
The obvious response would be: "But Smooth, movie stars are hot and everyone agrees this!" Well yeah. And some of them are very good looking. But some attractive women also think Steve Buscemi is an absolute hunk just by virtue of his being a movie star - fame is an aphrodisiac.
RichardTheFrog
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And some think Justin Timberlake is ugly.
I think height is very important, which unfortunately I don't have.
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If you've got the choice between a pretty-boy like a young Leonardo Di Caprio, or a "manly man" like Clint Eastwood in his Spaghetti Western prime...who is more attractive? Women really like both, for completely different reasons. It's completely subjective (though I'd rather be like Clint, because he's a badass rather than looking like a p*ssy who puts his face in a tub of vaseline every day).
Height does seem to be a factor that influences attraction to women subconsciously. But if you have the personality or physique to make up for it I imagine it isn't too bad.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
tinder is nonsense, im only on it because its comfortable to not move my ass. but its cancer and even loggin on these apps immediately makes you low bob who wastes his time meaninglessly messaging random women who arent in reality worth too much, and they wont even respond. if they will go on a date then that will be wasted time too.