"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I meant to post about this a while ago but forgot.

One of my plates right now is a girl I waited two months to contact after getting her number. I was distracted by other girls at the time and kind of forgot about her.

When the other girls dropped off I assumed it was too late but texted her for the hell of it just in case. Surprise, surprise.. she responded within the hour and agreed to go out with me lol.

You would think waiting two months to text or call a woman would be a total deal breaker, but its not.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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2 months is actually a good amount of time.

how many guys wait 2 months lol?

none, if you convey yourself properly when you first meet the plate she will know what's up.

set a date with her now and flake haha
 
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Chev.Chelios said:
2 months is actually a good amount of time.

how many guys wait 2 months lol?

none, if you convey yourself properly when you first meet the plate she will know what's up.

set a date with her now and flake haha
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I already had sex with her lol.

This is just a topic I forgot to post about when it first happened.
 
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Oh nice (; say you have a gf and you can't see her anymore now.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Chev.Chelios

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oh fvck yeah, then a week later change your mind and take her back.
 
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