"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I meant to post about this a while ago but forgot.

One of my plates right now is a girl I waited two months to contact after getting her number. I was distracted by other girls at the time and kind of forgot about her.

When the other girls dropped off I assumed it was too late but texted her for the hell of it just in case. Surprise, surprise.. she responded within the hour and agreed to go out with me lol.

You would think waiting two months to text or call a woman would be a total deal breaker, but its not.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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2 months is actually a good amount of time.

how many guys wait 2 months lol?

none, if you convey yourself properly when you first meet the plate she will know what's up.

set a date with her now and flake haha
 
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Chev.Chelios said:
2 months is actually a good amount of time.

how many guys wait 2 months lol?

none, if you convey yourself properly when you first meet the plate she will know what's up.

set a date with her now and flake haha
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I already had sex with her lol.

This is just a topic I forgot to post about when it first happened.
 
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Oh nice (; say you have a gf and you can't see her anymore now.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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oh fvck yeah, then a week later change your mind and take her back.
 
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