"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Timeline doesn't matter if there is high interest

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I meant to post about this a while ago but forgot.

One of my plates right now is a girl I waited two months to contact after getting her number. I was distracted by other girls at the time and kind of forgot about her.

When the other girls dropped off I assumed it was too late but texted her for the hell of it just in case. Surprise, surprise.. she responded within the hour and agreed to go out with me lol.

You would think waiting two months to text or call a woman would be a total deal breaker, but its not.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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2 months is actually a good amount of time.

how many guys wait 2 months lol?

none, if you convey yourself properly when you first meet the plate she will know what's up.

set a date with her now and flake haha
 

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2 months is actually a good amount of time.

how many guys wait 2 months lol?

none, if you convey yourself properly when you first meet the plate she will know what's up.

set a date with her now and flake haha
I already had sex with her lol.

This is just a topic I forgot to post about when it first happened.
 

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Oh nice (; say you have a gf and you can't see her anymore now.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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oh fvck yeah, then a week later change your mind and take her back.
 
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