"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I meant to post about this a while ago but forgot.

One of my plates right now is a girl I waited two months to contact after getting her number. I was distracted by other girls at the time and kind of forgot about her.

When the other girls dropped off I assumed it was too late but texted her for the hell of it just in case. Surprise, surprise.. she responded within the hour and agreed to go out with me lol.

You would think waiting two months to text or call a woman would be a total deal breaker, but its not.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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2 months is actually a good amount of time.

how many guys wait 2 months lol?

none, if you convey yourself properly when you first meet the plate she will know what's up.

set a date with her now and flake haha
 
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Chev.Chelios said:
2 months is actually a good amount of time.

how many guys wait 2 months lol?

none, if you convey yourself properly when you first meet the plate she will know what's up.

set a date with her now and flake haha
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I already had sex with her lol.

This is just a topic I forgot to post about when it first happened.
 
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Oh nice (; say you have a gf and you can't see her anymore now.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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oh fvck yeah, then a week later change your mind and take her back.
 
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