Just what to let you guys know that this site is awesome and has helped me a lot and monday im goin back to school and ready to meet some hot chicks. The last quick question that I need to know is how long is it good to do the Attraction and Qualification stage in HS. It is recommended that the attraction stage should be 2-10 minutes and the qualification stage the same. But im asking you guys...how long would you do each stage??
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Time for Attract and Qualify
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Attraction will happen unconsciously and will build up later on if you play your cards right. It's not a matter of minutes, it's the initial "first impression." If that first impression snaps the girl's interest and you don't **** your game later on, the attraction will build. Then move on to rapport.
LostAndConfused
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Your in high school brother, unfortunately you can't effect the qualification stage.
Supremo
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Yeah son, in high school your reputation sticks. It's extremely hard to qualify yourself when people already know you.
LostAndConfused
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FixedSupremo said:
.“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Supremo
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Fixed.LostAndConfused said:
But yeah, LostAndConfused had it right.
If you wanna "qualify" yourself you need to come in with a certain frame, and KEEP IT. Don't let people's ****talk steal your frame for one minute.
Think, and you shall become.
People in high school are pro's at seeing through bull**** identities people try and mask themselves with, so it's gotta be congruent through and through.