Just what to let you guys know that this site is awesome and has helped me a lot and monday im goin back to school and ready to meet some hot chicks. The last quick question that I need to know is how long is it good to do the Attraction and Qualification stage in HS. It is recommended that the attraction stage should be 2-10 minutes and the qualification stage the same. But im asking you guys...how long would you do each stage??
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Time for Attract and Qualify
- Thread starter Jamal
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
smooth guy
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Attraction will happen unconsciously and will build up later on if you play your cards right. It's not a matter of minutes, it's the initial "first impression." If that first impression snaps the girl's interest and you don't **** your game later on, the attraction will build. Then move on to rapport.
LostAndConfused
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Your in high school brother, unfortunately you can't effect the qualification stage.
Supremo
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Yeah son, in high school your reputation sticks. It's extremely hard to qualify yourself when people already know you.
LostAndConfused
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FixedSupremo said:
."You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Supremo
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Fixed.LostAndConfused said:
But yeah, LostAndConfused had it right.
If you wanna "qualify" yourself you need to come in with a certain frame, and KEEP IT. Don't let people's ****talk steal your frame for one minute.
Think, and you shall become.
People in high school are pro's at seeing through bull**** identities people try and mask themselves with, so it's gotta be congruent through and through.