Just what to let you guys know that this site is awesome and has helped me a lot and monday im goin back to school and ready to meet some hot chicks. The last quick question that I need to know is how long is it good to do the Attraction and Qualification stage in HS. It is recommended that the attraction stage should be 2-10 minutes and the qualification stage the same. But im asking you guys...how long would you do each stage??
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Time for Attract and Qualify
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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Attraction will happen unconsciously and will build up later on if you play your cards right. It's not a matter of minutes, it's the initial "first impression." If that first impression snaps the girl's interest and you don't **** your game later on, the attraction will build. Then move on to rapport.
LostAndConfused
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Your in high school brother, unfortunately you can't effect the qualification stage.
Supremo
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Yeah son, in high school your reputation sticks. It's extremely hard to qualify yourself when people already know you.
LostAndConfused
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FixedSupremo said:
."She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Supremo
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Fixed.LostAndConfused said:
But yeah, LostAndConfused had it right.
If you wanna "qualify" yourself you need to come in with a certain frame, and KEEP IT. Don't let people's ****talk steal your frame for one minute.
Think, and you shall become.
People in high school are pro's at seeing through bull**** identities people try and mask themselves with, so it's gotta be congruent through and through.