Just what to let you guys know that this site is awesome and has helped me a lot and monday im goin back to school and ready to meet some hot chicks. The last quick question that I need to know is how long is it good to do the Attraction and Qualification stage in HS. It is recommended that the attraction stage should be 2-10 minutes and the qualification stage the same. But im asking you guys...how long would you do each stage??
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Time for Attract and Qualify
- Thread starter Jamal
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
smooth guy
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Attraction will happen unconsciously and will build up later on if you play your cards right. It's not a matter of minutes, it's the initial "first impression." If that first impression snaps the girl's interest and you don't **** your game later on, the attraction will build. Then move on to rapport.
LostAndConfused
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Your in high school brother, unfortunately you can't effect the qualification stage.
Supremo
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Yeah son, in high school your reputation sticks. It's extremely hard to qualify yourself when people already know you.
LostAndConfused
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FixedSupremo said:
."You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Supremo
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Fixed.LostAndConfused said:
But yeah, LostAndConfused had it right.
If you wanna "qualify" yourself you need to come in with a certain frame, and KEEP IT. Don't let people's ****talk steal your frame for one minute.
Think, and you shall become.
People in high school are pro's at seeing through bull**** identities people try and mask themselves with, so it's gotta be congruent through and through.