Threesome

[Dradventure]

I recently started a relationship with a new woman. She has been great and is a sweetheart. She and I have talked about having a threesome and including another woman. My Girl is in her early 30s . The girl we are considering is 24 years old and is a former fitness model. She is really hot. I used to hook up with the 24 year old and she was a plate to spin during my previous relationship. My girlfriend knows that I had sex with her in the past. I do intend to still spin plates in general.

Do you all think having a threesome with such a hot young girl would negatively impact my relationship with my new girlfriend ? Any other thoughts ?

 

[Black Widow Void]

Hate to rain on the potential parade.
If this is a relationship that you are invested in and want it to mature, you may want to think twice.

Likely, the moment she sees you getting into (literally and figuratively) the other woman... this will likely create an unpleasant aftermath (for your gal and you as well) .

As much of a front as women put on, beneath the surface there's some degree of insecurity. When a woman reaches their 30's and up, their self-esteem is even less solid. The more composed woman will mask her insecurities ...and it will be dressed up in the form of withdrawal, mood swings and attention getting mechanisms. Last but not least.. passive/aggressive behavior ie; (next time you to have an argument) "oh.. well then why don't you go sleep with ____ (insert plates name) or... "oh, I bet you'd rather be over at ____ (plate's name) house. "

If your relationship is more about fun and kicks, then maybe it'll work out okay. If the relationship has some depth, again, I'd think twice.

 

[Black Widow Void]

If you dont mean to rain on his parade then dont. In this case hes exercising his ability to fck other girls. I dont recall marriage being mentioned.

"If (I) dont mean to rain on his parade then dont." ???
stringpuller, calm down, dude. it sounds like you got a bad case of displaced aggresion today. Let's leave the "flexing" behavior to those members here that continually posture.

As you will see from the OP's initial posting (quoted below) he wanted to know if a 3some would create any unpleasant ramifications. I obliged him with personal knowledge. Again, settle down, dude.

Do you all think having a threesome with such a hot young girl would negatively impact my relationship with my new girlfriend ? Any other thoughts ?

 

[Snake-eyes]

****ing do it, its not like you're married. If you do the 3some and your girl is feeling some sort of way that's her problem. You got a solid opportunity that guy would kill for in most cases. Capitalize on that..

 

[RangerMIke]

Advice on threesomes.... The man is the facilitator... You tell them what you want them to do.... this way it's not their fault... it's yours and oh well, "It just happened", when they are ready for you, you'll know, then you better be ready. Women don't agree to threesomes because they want to please you, they do it because they are curious about other women, and you provide the polarity... The man... well you are there so that it's not a pure lesbian encounter.

I haven't done this in awhile, I guess three years now. It was something I just feel into but I had a semi-regular thing with a lesbian yoga instructor that I lost touch with, we would go out... she would get the girls... and she would pull me in. It was her way to get straight chicks in the web. It was interesting, but trust me... it gets old. Sometimes you feel like a third wheel. I really don't like it that much anymore, but in college it was awesome.

If you've never done it, you should... add it to your life experience.

 

[Prettyboy Dee]

Have the threesome bro, stop overthinking sh!t
Just do it, everything else is irrelevant.

You know how many men want to have threesomes? You have the opportunity sitting on a silver plate, go for it.

 

[Bible_Belt]

It was interesting, but trust me... it gets old. Sometimes you feel like a third wheel.

lmao I know what you mean. I think that was on an episode of Friends:

"hey you guys, I'm just gonna go make a sandwhich....ok?"

 

[RangerMIke]

lmao I know what you mean. I think that was on an episode of Friends:

"hey you guys, I'm just gonna go make a sandwhich....ok?"

Yep! There was a movie... A guy and a couple of women in a three-way....I can't remember the movie or even who was in it but the dude was floating around saying "I want to do something!' While the two chicks were going at it... That cracks me up thinking about that.

But yea... That's how most three-ways go... Just don't be the guy pathetically begging. You sit back... watch and tell them what you want them to do to each other. Damn... I never got undressed until they were ready... just kick back, enjoy the show... pretend you are directing a porno.

 

[Serenity]

I guess it will be what you make of it. If you give the other girl too much attention compared to your girlfriend it can go wrong. If you know you won't catch feelings for the other girl and you make sure your girlfriend always feels like she's your number one, then go ahead.

How you handle it will play a significant role in what impact this will have on the relationship.

 

[devilkingx2]

The only things you have to worry about are:

A) your gf being an insecure basket case

B) your gf turning out to be a closet lesbian more interested in fvcking girls than you

C) the other girl is secretly in love with you and feelings resurface or vice versa with you and her, creating a love triangle

D) your gf using the threesome as leverage to get you to do something you wouldn't want to do like a two guy threesome or an open relationship or pegging

If you have no worries about any of the above or plans to deal with them (or simply don't care) then proceed with excitement!