I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
That’s one side of the equation. In my city since the 60’s stores of All types have been barring up, hiring excess security, or outright leaving the south side of town with the PD at a normal operating level …Any country that does not vigorously prosecute and punish people for committing property crimes will quickly cease to be a country.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Meanwhile stacy abrams is calling for people to join antifa in comitting acts of terrorism.Any country that does not vigorously prosecute and punish people for committing property crimes will quickly cease to be a country.
Conversely, any country that does vigorously prosecute and punish people for committing property crimes while said country is falling apart will accelerate its demise. Is heavy handed enforcement the answer when the leadership is corrupt?Any country that does not vigorously prosecute and punish people for committing property crimes will quickly cease to be a country.
No, they take over when they gain the power to write the laws. It's kinda too late at this point.Meanwhile stacy abrams is calling for people to join antifa in comitting acts of terrorism.
The fascists/commies take over when laws stop being enforced.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
It's not too late, it's only too late when they create a one-party system and take ALL the power.No, they take over when they gain the power to write the laws. It's kinda too late at this point.
It seems to create a feedback loop.They get it backwards; crime causes poverty, rather than poverty causing crime.
Exactly right, poverty creates crime as the only available option, that crime creates more poverty as a result of the employers leaving the area because of property crime, the end result is of a more personal crime level like murder robbery, violent rapes, or of a vehicle theft nature.It seems to create a feedback loop.
You've really got to be screwing something up to take down 269 Wal-Mart stores, one of the most successful chains in the country.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
We need to get back to teaching traditional values also.My bottom line, a better education system that actually teaches employment skills, better family support and educational resources, and first and foremost treat emotional illness effectively before a person completely flies off the rails …
I think those men never learned employable skills in the education system, they ejected to the street culture for their $$ …We need to get back to teaching traditional values also.
Then there's the damage to the family, there are few married fathers in these crime ridden areas, so the kids grow up without positive male role models, or discipline. I really think the destruction of the family began with feminism, but you can't say that because people will scream at you, or cancel you.
I don’t see any crimes caused by poverty in the video. Those lowlifes are not stealing food. They are stealing sneakers and flat screen TV’s. And you know damn well that they are on government assistance, even though they could work if they wanted to. But why work at Walmart when you can collect welfare and food stamps…and rob Walmart when you need a TV or the latest Nikes?Exactly right, poverty creates crime as the only available option, that crime creates more poverty as a result of the employers leaving the area because of property crime, the end result is of a more personal crime level like murder robbery, violent rapes, or of a vehicle theft nature.
My bottom line, a better education system that actually teaches employment skills, better family support and educational resources, and first and foremost treat emotional illness effectively before a person completely flies off the rails …
I get your point, not to play devil’s advocate, but I’m curious if government handouts could reduce more violent crimes since poverts have some means to an end. Almost like putting on the bandaidI don’t see any crimes caused by poverty in the video. Those lowlifes are not stealing food. They are stealing sneakers and flat screen TV’s. And you know damn well that they are on government assistance, even though they could work if they wanted to. But why work at Walmart when you can collect welfare and food stamps…and rob Walmart when you need a TV or the latest Nikes?
Poverty doesn’t cause crime. Third world countries are filled with poor people who work hard and do not resort to stealing. All that cheap stuff you buy that’s made in China and SE Asia wasn’t made thieves. What causes crime is government handouts. A person who doesn’t have to work to survive (and develops a sense of entitlement) will invariably turn to crime.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.