Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Bang and day Bang are ok but they are probably too basic. Most of the same pick up advice is already on the internet for free. The main battle in seduction is not getting the girl back to your place. Its not even having sex with her. Its having repeated sex with her. Thats what is very difficult for most men. Keeping a hot chick is often harder than getting physical with her. Bang and Day Bang do not address that.I'm mostly interested to hear your thoughts on his methods for picking up women as described in his books Bang and Day Bang.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
its TV and internet influence. manipulation on every websiteRoosh had all of North America terrified that men were going to gather into groups and rape women. Of course that wasn't what he was planning, but holy hell did it make the west stand on it's toes.
The reaction to Roosh's gathering of men was a precursor to the reaction of Trump becoming president. Both of them have had their words twisted and manipulated into something that isn't factual. It just goes to show how stupid and paranoid a lot of people have become in the last 10-20 years.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
On ROK, Roosh has posted a lot of stuff on self-improvement. I remember articles about working out and stoic philosophy off the top of my head. He's seemed to develop a mgtow tone over the years.I like Roosh but there are other red pill tubers I like more like Terrance Popp. Roosh does Seem to be all about pick up, where Popp is about life in general.
What do you think about the men that express their masculinity politically and intellectually? I myself don't want to believe it, but it's hard to ignore, considering that this small collection of individuals control the majority of the world's wealth, power and influence and are backed by armies.Real alphas aren’t debating things like race and politics.