I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Bang and day Bang are ok but they are probably too basic. Most of the same pick up advice is already on the internet for free. The main battle in seduction is not getting the girl back to your place. Its not even having sex with her. Its having repeated sex with her. Thats what is very difficult for most men. Keeping a hot chick is often harder than getting physical with her. Bang and Day Bang do not address that.I'm mostly interested to hear your thoughts on his methods for picking up women as described in his books Bang and Day Bang.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
its TV and internet influence. manipulation on every websiteRoosh had all of North America terrified that men were going to gather into groups and rape women. Of course that wasn't what he was planning, but holy hell did it make the west stand on it's toes.
The reaction to Roosh's gathering of men was a precursor to the reaction of Trump becoming president. Both of them have had their words twisted and manipulated into something that isn't factual. It just goes to show how stupid and paranoid a lot of people have become in the last 10-20 years.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
On ROK, Roosh has posted a lot of stuff on self-improvement. I remember articles about working out and stoic philosophy off the top of my head. He's seemed to develop a mgtow tone over the years.I like Roosh but there are other red pill tubers I like more like Terrance Popp. Roosh does Seem to be all about pick up, where Popp is about life in general.
What do you think about the men that express their masculinity politically and intellectually? I myself don't want to believe it, but it's hard to ignore, considering that this small collection of individuals control the majority of the world's wealth, power and influence and are backed by armies.Real alphas aren’t debating things like race and politics.