You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Bang and day Bang are ok but they are probably too basic. Most of the same pick up advice is already on the internet for free. The main battle in seduction is not getting the girl back to your place. Its not even having sex with her. Its having repeated sex with her. Thats what is very difficult for most men. Keeping a hot chick is often harder than getting physical with her. Bang and Day Bang do not address that.I'm mostly interested to hear your thoughts on his methods for picking up women as described in his books Bang and Day Bang.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
its TV and internet influence. manipulation on every websiteRoosh had all of North America terrified that men were going to gather into groups and rape women. Of course that wasn't what he was planning, but holy hell did it make the west stand on it's toes.
The reaction to Roosh's gathering of men was a precursor to the reaction of Trump becoming president. Both of them have had their words twisted and manipulated into something that isn't factual. It just goes to show how stupid and paranoid a lot of people have become in the last 10-20 years.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
On ROK, Roosh has posted a lot of stuff on self-improvement. I remember articles about working out and stoic philosophy off the top of my head. He's seemed to develop a mgtow tone over the years.I like Roosh but there are other red pill tubers I like more like Terrance Popp. Roosh does Seem to be all about pick up, where Popp is about life in general.
What do you think about the men that express their masculinity politically and intellectually? I myself don't want to believe it, but it's hard to ignore, considering that this small collection of individuals control the majority of the world's wealth, power and influence and are backed by armies.Real alphas aren’t debating things like race and politics.