“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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thoughts on dating in college!?

silkkster

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So i been getting #'s and dates with no problem! thanks to this site - i tell you you learn the most from this site when you log off and think about what **** shiet really means! anwyays...
i been thinking - is dating "where its at" in college?
- do most of you think to wait after you grad to try to have a relationship w/ someone? or do you think relationships are viable in college life today?---sometimes it seems like having a relationship would be a pain in the ass - less freedom etc.... im just curious as to you all thoughts -
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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octane_orphan

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My advice is use colledge it an enjoy it!!

Its alot harder to meet women once you start working for a living!
 

Freeman

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Originally posted by silkkster
So i been getting #'s and dates with no problem! thanks to this site - i tell you you learn the most from this site when you log off and think about what **** shiet really means! anwyays...
i been thinking - is dating "where its at" in college?
- do most of you think to wait after you grad to try to have a relationship w/ someone? or do you think relationships are viable in college life today?---sometimes it seems like having a relationship would be a pain in the ass - less freedom etc.... im just curious as to you all thoughts -

I think the that temptation to cheat is way too high in college so thats why I think you should try to wait til after college to get into a serious relationship.
 

yunghova35

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Originally posted by silkkster
So i been getting #'s and dates with no problem! thanks to this site - i tell you you learn the most from this site when you log off and think about what **** shiet really means! anwyays...
i been thinking - is dating "where its at" in college?
- do most of you think to wait after you grad to try to have a relationship w/ someone? or do you think relationships are viable in college life today?---sometimes it seems like having a relationship would be a pain in the ass - less freedom etc.... im just curious as to you all thoughts -
what do you mean like seriously???, well I wouldnt I think you should approach this as:

If I meet someone and they PROVE to me that they are worthly I may CONSIDER having a monogamous relationship with them.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Freeman

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Re: Re: thoughts on dating in college!?

Originally posted by yunghova35
what do you mean like seriously???, well I wouldnt I think you should approach this as:

If I meet someone and they PROVE to me that they are worthly I may CONSIDER having a monogamous relationship with them.
I've been wondering for a while now-how old are you?
 

yunghova35

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Re: Re: Re: thoughts on dating in college!?

Originally posted by Freeman
I've been wondering for a while now-how old are you?
I changed my age just for you...
 

Freeman

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Re: Re: Re: Re: thoughts on dating in college!?

Originally posted by yunghova35
I changed my age just for you...
LOL hey man I was just wondering because you seem like a smart guy.
 
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