"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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thoughts on dating in college!?

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So i been getting #'s and dates with no problem! thanks to this site - i tell you you learn the most from this site when you log off and think about what **** shiet really means! anwyays...
i been thinking - is dating "where its at" in college?
- do most of you think to wait after you grad to try to have a relationship w/ someone? or do you think relationships are viable in college life today?---sometimes it seems like having a relationship would be a pain in the ass - less freedom etc.... im just curious as to you all thoughts -
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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My advice is use colledge it an enjoy it!!

Its alot harder to meet women once you start working for a living!
 
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Originally posted by silkkster
So i been getting #'s and dates with no problem! thanks to this site - i tell you you learn the most from this site when you log off and think about what **** shiet really means! anwyays...
i been thinking - is dating "where its at" in college?
- do most of you think to wait after you grad to try to have a relationship w/ someone? or do you think relationships are viable in college life today?---sometimes it seems like having a relationship would be a pain in the ass - less freedom etc.... im just curious as to you all thoughts -
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I think the that temptation to cheat is way too high in college so thats why I think you should try to wait til after college to get into a serious relationship.
 
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Originally posted by silkkster
So i been getting #'s and dates with no problem! thanks to this site - i tell you you learn the most from this site when you log off and think about what **** shiet really means! anwyays...
i been thinking - is dating "where its at" in college?
- do most of you think to wait after you grad to try to have a relationship w/ someone? or do you think relationships are viable in college life today?---sometimes it seems like having a relationship would be a pain in the ass - less freedom etc.... im just curious as to you all thoughts -
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what do you mean like seriously???, well I wouldnt I think you should approach this as:

If I meet someone and they PROVE to me that they are worthly I may CONSIDER having a monogamous relationship with them.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Freeman

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Re: Re: thoughts on dating in college!?

Originally posted by yunghova35
what do you mean like seriously???, well I wouldnt I think you should approach this as:

If I meet someone and they PROVE to me that they are worthly I may CONSIDER having a monogamous relationship with them.
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I've been wondering for a while now-how old are you?
 
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Re: Re: Re: thoughts on dating in college!?

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I've been wondering for a while now-how old are you?
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I changed my age just for you...
 
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Re: Re: Re: Re: thoughts on dating in college!?

Originally posted by yunghova35
I changed my age just for you...
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LOL hey man I was just wondering because you seem like a smart guy.
 
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