"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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thoughts on dating in college!?

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So i been getting #'s and dates with no problem! thanks to this site - i tell you you learn the most from this site when you log off and think about what **** shiet really means! anwyays...
i been thinking - is dating "where its at" in college?
- do most of you think to wait after you grad to try to have a relationship w/ someone? or do you think relationships are viable in college life today?---sometimes it seems like having a relationship would be a pain in the ass - less freedom etc.... im just curious as to you all thoughts -
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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My advice is use colledge it an enjoy it!!

Its alot harder to meet women once you start working for a living!
 
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Originally posted by silkkster
So i been getting #'s and dates with no problem! thanks to this site - i tell you you learn the most from this site when you log off and think about what **** shiet really means! anwyays...
i been thinking - is dating "where its at" in college?
- do most of you think to wait after you grad to try to have a relationship w/ someone? or do you think relationships are viable in college life today?---sometimes it seems like having a relationship would be a pain in the ass - less freedom etc.... im just curious as to you all thoughts -
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I think the that temptation to cheat is way too high in college so thats why I think you should try to wait til after college to get into a serious relationship.
 
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Originally posted by silkkster
So i been getting #'s and dates with no problem! thanks to this site - i tell you you learn the most from this site when you log off and think about what **** shiet really means! anwyays...
i been thinking - is dating "where its at" in college?
- do most of you think to wait after you grad to try to have a relationship w/ someone? or do you think relationships are viable in college life today?---sometimes it seems like having a relationship would be a pain in the ass - less freedom etc.... im just curious as to you all thoughts -
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what do you mean like seriously???, well I wouldnt I think you should approach this as:

If I meet someone and they PROVE to me that they are worthly I may CONSIDER having a monogamous relationship with them.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Freeman

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Re: Re: thoughts on dating in college!?

Originally posted by yunghova35
what do you mean like seriously???, well I wouldnt I think you should approach this as:

If I meet someone and they PROVE to me that they are worthly I may CONSIDER having a monogamous relationship with them.
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I've been wondering for a while now-how old are you?
 
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Re: Re: Re: thoughts on dating in college!?

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I've been wondering for a while now-how old are you?
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I changed my age just for you...
 
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Re: Re: Re: Re: thoughts on dating in college!?

Originally posted by yunghova35
I changed my age just for you...
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LOL hey man I was just wondering because you seem like a smart guy.
 
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