"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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thoughts on dating in college!?

silkkster

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So i been getting #'s and dates with no problem! thanks to this site - i tell you you learn the most from this site when you log off and think about what **** shiet really means! anwyays...
i been thinking - is dating "where its at" in college?
- do most of you think to wait after you grad to try to have a relationship w/ someone? or do you think relationships are viable in college life today?---sometimes it seems like having a relationship would be a pain in the ass - less freedom etc.... im just curious as to you all thoughts -
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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octane_orphan

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My advice is use colledge it an enjoy it!!

Its alot harder to meet women once you start working for a living!
 

Freeman

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Originally posted by silkkster
So i been getting #'s and dates with no problem! thanks to this site - i tell you you learn the most from this site when you log off and think about what **** shiet really means! anwyays...
i been thinking - is dating "where its at" in college?
- do most of you think to wait after you grad to try to have a relationship w/ someone? or do you think relationships are viable in college life today?---sometimes it seems like having a relationship would be a pain in the ass - less freedom etc.... im just curious as to you all thoughts -

I think the that temptation to cheat is way too high in college so thats why I think you should try to wait til after college to get into a serious relationship.
 

yunghova35

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Originally posted by silkkster
So i been getting #'s and dates with no problem! thanks to this site - i tell you you learn the most from this site when you log off and think about what **** shiet really means! anwyays...
i been thinking - is dating "where its at" in college?
- do most of you think to wait after you grad to try to have a relationship w/ someone? or do you think relationships are viable in college life today?---sometimes it seems like having a relationship would be a pain in the ass - less freedom etc.... im just curious as to you all thoughts -
what do you mean like seriously???, well I wouldnt I think you should approach this as:

If I meet someone and they PROVE to me that they are worthly I may CONSIDER having a monogamous relationship with them.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Freeman

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Re: Re: thoughts on dating in college!?

Originally posted by yunghova35
what do you mean like seriously???, well I wouldnt I think you should approach this as:

If I meet someone and they PROVE to me that they are worthly I may CONSIDER having a monogamous relationship with them.
I've been wondering for a while now-how old are you?
 

yunghova35

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Re: Re: Re: thoughts on dating in college!?

Originally posted by Freeman
I've been wondering for a while now-how old are you?
I changed my age just for you...
 

Freeman

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Re: Re: Re: Re: thoughts on dating in college!?

Originally posted by yunghova35
I changed my age just for you...
LOL hey man I was just wondering because you seem like a smart guy.
 
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