“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Thoughts on Complimenting

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What are your opinions on complimenting. How often should I do it? I heard that it shows desperation or something like that so I don't do it too often to "remain a mystery." If it wasn't for that I would be complimenting girls every day
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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El Payaso

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I've personally never complimented any girl I'm dating in the early phase but that's just me.
 

Rainman4707

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When dating a woman, compliment her once in a while. Sincere compliments are better because she knows you mean it.

My GF has been saying she has a fat ass & that she is fat recently so when she says these things I have been telling her how much she turns me on, that she has a booty & I love fu*king her.
Am I overdoing it? I just want her to know that I like her body.
 

RangerMIke

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Rainman4707 said:
When dating a woman, compliment her once in a while. Sincere compliments are better because she knows you mean it.

My GF has been saying she has a fat ass & that she is fat recently so when she says these things I have been telling her how much she turns me on, that she has a booty & I love fu*king her.
Am I overdoing it? I just want her to know that I like her body.
This is the best way to deal with "Do I look fat? Questions. Just get sexual with her... works every time.

On compliments. .. Always be sincere. Compliment her ONLY if you really mean it. Women always know when you lay it on thick.

One compliment per date is about as much as you want to do. Otherwise you run the risk of coming off sounding like a phoney.
 

WanderingMan

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Compliment (reward) her for positive things.

Don't compliment for negative things.

Think of it as training a puppy...:eek:

If she started working out that week, and she's lost a few pounds, then compliment her some way on she's looking good: "those jeans look really good on you". Don't bring up the fact that she's been working out - let her connect the dots - that way she'll decide on her own that she wants to go to the gym more. If she cooks a good meal - give her a compliment. If she buys you something - give her a compliment. If she nags you for no apparent reason - withdraw attention and any sort of compliments or rewarding behavior.

Disclaimer: There are beta ways to compliment and alpha ways to compliment. A simple "you look really good today babe" or "that was a great meal" can be all you need sometimes. Give her a little appreciation and recognition for her good behavior (but don't over do it) , and she will do more of it - and aim to please you.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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SeymourCake

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Compliment on her behavior. That's all.
 
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